age difference... opinions and advice please

[gayboytroy]

so im bi but pretty much gay. i have a really big thing for this boy but im 17 and hes 15. i know its only two years but its like im above 16 and hes below so im worried that if i went out with him i would get accused of being a pedo or something :/ hes not exactly physically mature for his age but it doesn't bother me cuz i go for personality. please help :(

[Pierce]

We're gay, since when do we care about what others think of us =p. I don't think 2 years is too big of a gap. As you get older the age gap becomes less of a big deal. It might look a little weird if he is not so physically mature but you are. But who cares what others are going to think? If you like him, date him. Best of Luck with this situation, it's complicated! =) Need any further advice feel free to ask.

[anyone50]

Yea 2 years isn't much of an age difference so i wouldn't worry about that too much besides to be a pedo you would have to be attracted to boys that haven't entered puberty yet like under 11 or so. Not sure what your considering physically mature but if he looks like he's 11 or 12 but he's 15 That may raise some eyebrows from people that don't know how hold he is. I think whats more important is mental maturity and that is because he is younger don't pressure him into anything he's hesitant to try. Other than that i don't see a problem here.

[Swagging god]

Idk I'm stuck with the same dilema I am dating some 6 almost 7 years older than me. She is 11 and I'm 18. Is the wrong? I'm I a pedophile?

[Jess]

so im bi but pretty much gay. i have a really big thing for this boy but im 17 and hes 15. i know its only two years but its like im above 16 and hes below so im worried that if i went out with him i would get accused of being a pedo or something :/ hes not exactly physically mature for his age but it doesn't bother me cuz i go for personality. please help :(

Two years is not a big age gap. I think it's fine.

Idk I'm stuck with the same dilema I am dating some 6 almost 7 years older than me. She is 11 and I'm 18. Is the wrong? I'm I a pedophile?
o_O okay maybe that's a bit wrong...she's only 11...I wouldn't exactly call you that but you probably shouldn't be dating someone that young (what does her parents say??). But that's just my thoughts......

[unnamed94]

Idk I'm stuck with the same dilema I am dating some 6 almost 7 years older than me. She is 11 and I'm 18. Is the wrong? I'm I a pedophile?

thats just plain wrong. 11? for me that sounds like you have some problems. its seven years. she is obviously not as mature as you in any way possible and you are both in extremely different stages in life. i didnt mean this in a bad way at all, just stating what i think

to op: im normally against what most people say when a thread like this comes on, but 2 years is normal. who cares what people would think about that.

[anyone50]

Idk I'm stuck with the same dilema I am dating some 6 almost 7 years older than me. She is 11 and I'm 18. Is the wrong? I'm I a pedophile?

I'm confused you say your dating someone that is 6 or 7 years older than you then you go on to say she is 11 and your 18. Don't you mean your dating someone 6 or 7 years younger than yourself? or is her age a typo and you meant to say she's 24 or 25 years old?

In answer to your question about being a pedo what do you honestly think? I may not be one to say anything since my bf is more than 8 years older than I am but then again I wasn't dating him at 11 either and I'll be 16 in a couple weeks. If you want the legal definition it's a guy that dates a girl that hasn't entered puberty and lacks the secondary sexual charateristics of the onset of puberty like breast development. You be the judge.

[Swagging god]

Thanks I am meaning I'm dating someone 6 or 7 years younger than me.

[Lost in the Echo]

Age is just a number, maturity matters way more.

[anyone50]

Thanks I am meaning I'm dating someone 6 or 7 years younger than me.

Just curious but how does her parents feel about this relationship, an 18 year old dating their daughter who's 11 years old?

Age is just a number, maturity matters way more.

I agree but there is a point that age should matter if the girl is in the 6th or 7th grade and the guy is 18. I'm as liberal as they come on this subject since my bf is a lot older than I am but there are boundries that should not be crossed.