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clueless_one
February 24th, 2013, 05:50 AM
A girl has been showing what to me looks like signs of liking me. But I'm not completely sure.

She sometimes says hi to me first.

stares at me, but not much.

Her shoulders face me, or are open towards me. (Usually occurs in class, when she is talking to her friends behind her, she turns so her shoulders are facing me and her head is facing her friends. Also as she is facing the front, her shoulders are still facing me)

She waved her hand at me in a flirty way. Opposite way of flicking her hand, and in a slower motion.

Called me popular to one of her friends.

I told a her that i'm interested in girls from a certain country. She says that she is not from that country. When I corrected myself saying that I like girls from the country i'm living in she smiled at me and looked really happy and started talking to her friends about something looking at me as I walked away.

I told her friend that she is my favourite, she told her and she smiled. When her friend said it again to her, she looked at me.

She wanted to know if she is invited to an event i'm organising, i said that she was and she smiled.

No signs that she doesn't like me.

Me and my crush are 18 if you need to know.

Gwen
February 24th, 2013, 05:55 AM
You can't really know for sure until you actually bring it up, it can potentially ruin the relationship but if she doesn't feel the same way, then cool it's not the end of the world. It seems like you 2 have it off really well so talk to her about it or even ask her out would be my best advice.

AbbaZabba
February 24th, 2013, 07:11 AM
Never know till you try. Just ask her out to do something, a movie is great, it's 2 hours you don't have to talk and afterwards gives you something to talk about. Look at it as a friendship and not dating. I hate hearing I'm dating someone in the beginning. No, your getting to know someone and becoming friends. I would definitely give it a whirl, you won't know till you do. Ask her out as a friend, not a date.

anyone50
February 24th, 2013, 04:28 PM
Chances are she's at least curious about you and wants to get to know you better and this event your organizing sounds like the perfect place and opportunity to let her get to know you better and see where it goes. Getting to know the other person is the best way I know to find out if there is a chance at something more like a relationship.

I can tell you from my past experiences that i had acted much like this girl on a few different occasions and after we got to know each other better it sometimes worked out and sometimes it didn't but if you don't try you will never know.