Sex : Help!!!!!

[Ivan09011995]

I'm 18, nd i had sex for the first time 3 days ago wasnt rili wat i was xpecting bcos it wasnt all tight and i didnt get the feeling..... I did it for about 10 mins nd didnt ejaculate.... Am just really surprised, wats the cause, i really nid help

[Firestar94]

*and, really, what, I, expecting, because, wasn't, I, didn't, and, I'm, what's, I, need.

[Allain1996]

*and, really, what, I, expecting, because, wasn't, I, didn't, and, I'm, what's, I, need.

Since dumbass here above me was to ignorant to help, I'll try.
You probably were just nervous, or maybe it just didn't feel right. You know what they say: If at first you don't succeed, try, try again! ;)

P.S. I would normally make some sarcastic remark about your poor English, but I think the idiot above wasted enough thread space doing that. Just work on the English and grammar so that it's easier to answer your threads in the future, and so you won't get idiotic and unnecessary replies like the one above! :)

[xmojox]

First time is weird. You've got all of this stuff running around in your head, and you might not be in the most ideal place possible, and you're worried if you're gonna do it right, is your partner gonna like it, are you gonna like it, what if, what if, what it...so yeah, you were nervous bro. Next time you're gonna not be as worried because you know what to expect, and you're gonna be more relaxed, and, well...yeah, you get the idea. Good luck!!

[Catholic Guy]

There's nothing wrong, not all girls are tight but the tighter they are the better the feeling so you have nothing to worry about, if she wasn't a virgin next time look for someone who is, they're more likely to be tight

[Ivan09011995]

*and, really, what, I, expecting, because, wasn't, I, didn't, and, I'm, what's, I, need.



Get A Life Dude, It's Called Abbreviation

[Ivan09011995]

Thanks for trying to help
but what's bothering me is that i'm guessing it felt that way as a result of masturbation. I have been doing it for like 4 years

[Ivan09011995]

Thanks for trying to help
but what's bothering me is that i'm guessing it felt that way as a result of masturbation. I have been doing it for like 4 years

[StoneColdNicky]

Thanks for trying to help
but what's bothering me is that i'm guessing it felt that way as a result of masturbation. I have been doing it for like 4 years

Not necessarily. You just have to find what works for both of you. Like the previous poster said. If at first you don't succeed.

[digzchickz]

dude masturbating has nothing to do with it cuz if it did no guy would ejaculate then lol and humans would have died off long ago cuz everybody masturbates.
The first time usually sucks for everyone, i dont know of anyone whose first time went the way that they expected. Some guys cum real quick, some cant cum at all, and some cant even get hard. its just all the emotions, nervousness and anxiety that do this. now the next time you have sex, maybe dont jerk off that day and let the horniness build up a little.

[Ivan09011995]

I would definitely try dat... I Read An article that being used to your hand makes it difficult to ejaculate during sex because it would be different

[sparkles]

I would definitely try dat... I Read An article that being used to your hand makes it difficult to ejaculate during sex because it would be different

This is true. Try doing what is called "soft-touch" masturbation. A lot of people get in the habit of getting off from a hard bony fist tightly gripping, and a vagina is far from anything like your hand. "Soft touch" basically means NO tight gripping but also mixing things up. Switch hands, sometimes use lube, other times don't. If you do an internet search for it you will find a wealth of resources.

[Ivan09011995]

This is true. Try doing what is called "soft-touch" masturbation. A lot of people get in the habit of getting off from a hard bony fist tightly gripping, and a vagina is far from anything like your hand. "Soft touch" basically means NO tight gripping but also mixing things up. Switch hands, sometimes use lube, other times don't. If you do an internet search for it you will find a wealth of resources.

don't you think that staying away from it for a while would help it?
If so, how long would it take?

[sparkles]

don't you think that staying away from it for a while would help it?
If so, how long would it take?

if you do a search for "soft touch masturbation" you will find a wealth of resources. Some of which recommend cutting back and trying new "ways".

[tundravortex]

the first time isnt always wat u expect,some people are different and have different exsperiences

[PetrusRomanus]

I think it is common not to get the sensation for the first time. Beleive me.

[lucole97]

You might be right about the masturbation, I've had sex numerous times gay and straight and I am the only person that's ever been able to give myself an orgasm, maybe try masturbating less.

[yodanick1098]

I'm 18, nd i had sex for the first time 3 days ago wasnt rili wat i was xpecting bcos it wasnt all tight and i didnt get the feeling..... I did it for about 10 mins nd didnt ejaculate.... Am just really surprised, wats the cause, i really nid help

Did you use a condom? Plz say u did because if you did ejaculate in her then you will get a baby! But sex for the first time does feel wired. Just keep having sex and it will get better. I also recommended Trojan Condoms. You can get them at target. They are the best condoms out there.loo

[Ivan09011995]

Thank you all for trying to help me,
I gave up masturbation for some days and it really helped me and the experience was great for me