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jmaguire24
February 23rd, 2013, 08:37 PM
Ok, so in the past I've been really attracted to girls but recently I started to like guys. It's not like I would like to date a guy or anything but I get turned on by good looking guys and also I get turned on by dicks. The problem is I also still am attracted to girls and hot women like Kate Upton on the sports illustrated cover really turned me on. Does this mean I'm Bi? I really just want to be straight. Thankyou so so soo much in advance guys! Enjoy your weekend!!! :)

joshM1996
February 23rd, 2013, 08:50 PM
If you dont want to date a guy youre probably not bi, it may just be hormones from puberty, youre probably just curious

Matt_2012
February 23rd, 2013, 08:51 PM
Nah it doesn't mean your bi, hormones man. it can be confusing for some people though.

jmaguire24
February 23rd, 2013, 08:53 PM
Thank you sososoososososos much!!!!! I feel a lot better:Dbetter

dontfiguremeout
February 23rd, 2013, 08:56 PM
Puberty Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality. You'll find better answers here.

Gandalf
February 23rd, 2013, 09:15 PM
Ok, so in the past I've been really attracted to girls but recently I started to like guys. It's not like I would like to date a guy or anything but I get turned on by good looking guys and also I get turned on by dicks. The problem is I also still am attracted to girls and hot women like Kate Upton on the sports illustrated cover really turned me on. Does this mean I'm Bi? I really just want to be straight. Thankyou so so soo much in advance guys! Enjoy your weekend!!! :)

I don't know how old you are, but I would say you would probably be curious and that's perfectly ok, if it continues then I'd say you were bi, and as a person who is bi myself there is absoloutely nothing wrong with it. "I just really want to be straight" no matter how much you feel that way, if you were bi or gay it's something you just couldn't change.

Relax, just like what you like and dont force labels on yourself.
Hope I've helped :)

Catholic Guy
February 24th, 2013, 05:47 AM
No it's just your hormones I'm exactly the same!

anyone50
February 24th, 2013, 05:14 PM
I agree harmones do crazy things and being a teen is all about finding out who you are anyway. As I have said before no one is 100% straight and no one is 100% gay. We all find something in people of the same sex we like it's just some people like more than others about the same sex.

PinkFloyd
February 24th, 2013, 05:26 PM
In order to be gay, you need to be physically attracted to the same sex and emotionally. To be bi, you need to be physically and emotionally attracted to both sexes. In my opinion, I think it's just hormones. Iwas a little like that when I was your age.

teen.jpg
February 25th, 2013, 01:08 AM
You are fine. You'll figure it out eventually.

Maddies_Not_Okay
February 25th, 2013, 03:36 AM
Okay, I'm bisexual, so is my 12 year old boy cousin, he was confused and so was I, I didn't get why I was physically attracted to girls,but not so much emotionally, I tried being with a girl, it didn't work out but I'm still attracted to females and guys. It's normal. My EX boyfriend was curious and had a experiment with my gay best friend. Turns out he was just curious.

AbbaZabba
February 25th, 2013, 04:11 PM
There's nothing wrong with you at all, it's all part of growing up, it is the hormones, curiosity and all very natural. It will probably be quite some time before you'll truly know your sexuality.

Shadow
March 11th, 2013, 02:50 AM
There is nothing wrong with it all. You are probably just curious because of all the hormones raging in your body. There is no need to be alarmed and no need to rush to put a label on yourself you will find out who you are in time.

PerpetualMotionSquad
March 11th, 2013, 12:03 PM
As long as you don't wanna date the guy then you're curious. If it goes into the fact that you want a relationship too, then you could be bi.

rocketsheep
March 11th, 2013, 04:33 PM
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