I relapsed and I feel guity

[flyinaway]

I'm sick of hearing from my siblings how worthless I am, or that I'm a lazy bitch and arrogant prick! So I relapsed last night after 11 days without cutting and I feel so guilty. I don't know what to do. I can't stop.

[xDarkAngelx]

Firstly just ignore your siblings and what they say about you, it's not true. Well done for going that long without cutting! you shouldn't feel guilty, relapses happen, you should be proud of going that long without in the first place. Are you seeing someone about it?

[flyinaway]

Firstly just ignore your siblings and what they say about you, it's not true. Well done for going that long without cutting! you shouldn't feel guilty, relapses happen, you should be proud of going that long without in the first place. Are you seeing someone about it?

That's the thing. I think it is true. I screw up so much I can't take it.
And no, I'm not seeing anyone. Pretty much alone with this situation.

[Perfect_Insanity]

I think you should try to find some help. Do you have any friends or trusted adults you can talk to? The latter is probably a better idea, but I, for one, don't really trust many people, so I can understand why that wouldn't be an option. Having someone supporting you through quitting can mean a world of difference (don't mistake that for me saying it's easy, because, quite frankly, it never is.) As for your siblings, it doesn't really matter what they think. Just try and ignore it.

[xarvon1412]

I agree flyinaway, ignore them. It doesn't matter what they say or do, it's not going to change you. Just because they call you lazy or an arrogant prick doesn't mean you are one. You don't have to listen to them, and I'm being a hypocrite saying that, but you should ignore them. Don't worry about relapse, it happens all the time honestly. I mean, I know that you want to stop, but you shouldn't have such a bad time if you accidentally slip up once or twice. I know, it's hard to quit and relapse makes it harder, but you seriously don't have to be so angry with yourself if you slip up. However, in order to stop, you can't slip up. What I'm saying is, don't beat yourself up okay?

[King Smiles]

I'm sick of hearing from my siblings how worthless I am, or that I'm a lazy bitch and arrogant prick! So I relapsed last night after 11 days without cutting and I feel so guilty. I don't know what to do. I can't stop.

Just smile and be happy.

I know that's not an easy thing to do and to be honest I probably don't have a clue what you're going through. I'm sort of just on this site for one reason.

And here is that reason I just want everyone to smile and be happy. So come on don't feel guilty cheer up and try not to cut. Cutting brings a frown to more people then it does smiles and I think everyone should smile.

I bet your happiness will give others strength so smile even when your upset. Why? Because giving a big grin is better then frowning.

[HerSecretsAreExposed]

I went a year without cutting... now I cant stop again.. I feel just as bad, if not worse...