shoul i make sex with my Bf?

[Sandy86]

I'm feeling a lot of pressure to have sex. How do I know if my boyfriend is just using me?

[tundravortex]

well its up to u"are u ready for it and in case something happends or not yet"

[clarksonian]

I've been pressuring my gf some but I say don't do it until you are personally ready. Make sure your relationship is strong enough. That's what me and my gf have been doing. Shes also very afraid of getting prego. I also can respect her wishes to stay away from it and don't pressure her to much or I feel bad.

[anyone50]

There's not a sure fire way to tell if a guy is using you except from his history with other girls. If you don't have this information or he's unwilling to talk about past relationships this maybe a red flag. My advise is don't have sex until you feel that its right even it means this guy thats pressuring you moves on. If he does move on you'll have your answer about is he using you.

[eddward]

If you're not sure, wait a while. If bf is worth your time,, he should understand

[LitBlackRose]

Well if your not sure then your not ready. No one has the right to make you do anything that you don't want to . No one should pressure you into anything

[TinyDancer]

If you're not sure then just wait. If he's still around when you are ready then go for it. You'll know when you're ready when you're with the right guy.

[xmojox]

Don't ever have sex just because some guy wants you to. You're the only one who can decide that it's right. If you're gettin the feeling that he might leave you if you don't I would say let him. If you're worried that he's using you, trust your instincts. He probably is. I hope this helped at least somewhat.

[AbbaZabba]

It's up to you, but my opinion is if you feel pressured, then NO, if you have doubts, then NO, and if you worry he is using you, Then NO. If you have doubts, there is definitely not enough communication and in my mind, that comes first. My advice is wait and continue to work on the basics, happiness, friendship, communication and honesty, then ask yourself, am I ready now.

[Nellerin]

I'm feeling a lot of pressure to have sex. How do I know if my boyfriend is just using me?

Really it comes down to what you want. If you have been with him for a while and think he is serious about a relationship then go for it.

[Sky Flower]

If you have to ask, it's a no.

[Taryn98]

If you're not really sure then don't do it. When you know you're ready 100%, then do it.

[TapDancer]

The decision is yours. But I urge you to think, doing things when not emotionally ready is not good for you.

[digzchickz]

if you are feeling pressured than you shouldnt do it, you should only do it if you want to and if you feel like you are ready, but if he is a decent boyfriend he will respect it.

[amandamanda]

Like others say, if you have to ask, you're probably not ready with this particular guy.

[Marcus_Stockley]

Follow your gut instinct. If you feel like your being pressured, wait or talk to him about it.