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kimmimi
February 23rd, 2013, 06:28 AM
I just came here in this forum to seek help.
Before we start this I want to say sorry for my bad English.
I have one big problem. I'm in love with my teacher. But before you start saying it'll pass, it's an ilusion... I want you to say, it's not an ilusion, everyone in my class knows who he really is. He's our headteacher and our native language teacher. When we first met he gave us his phone number in case we need him and we all gave him our phone numbers. The whole class knows him really well. When we have some problems we go and talk to him, he's alwyas there for us.
I've been texting with him when he was sick and in the hospital. He's more like our friend than our teacher. Some of my friends even call him "mom". We know everything about his family, he knows everything about our families. We know he's married and has two kids. He's 21. years older than me. I won't tell him what I feel for him cause everything will change but I can tell him everything else. We're like best friends. At first I was thinking that I love him like a friend, but I was wrong. Whenever he's mad I try to make him smile and he knows that. He knows that I'll be there for him always. Many say that I'm his favorite student, but I don't think that's true. I even talked to him about how would I like to change classes, but he refused it. Everytime I'm near him I blush. He has one unique nickname for me and he likes to call me like that because he knows I don't like that nickname. Don't get me wrong, I don't think he has feelings for me. He's great teacher and maybe on of the favorite teachers in my school. Everyone likes him, other teachers, other students..
Sorry if this was boring, but I need your help. What should I do? I'm not going to say anything to him, but how should I forget him? I tried to be with other guys, I tried to focus more on school..But nothing.
Once again, sorry for my bad English. Please help me.

tundravortex
February 23rd, 2013, 01:08 PM
well one thing is for sure being in love with your teacher is wrong in so many ways but when u have those feelings it just means your close to your teacher and your really good friends with your teacher,thats what you want in school is to get to kno your teachers but not to the point where your in love with him but just where u can get the things u need during the year,i mean i gave my teachers nick names and have a good time but yea your just good friends with him

anyone50
February 23rd, 2013, 01:24 PM
Your not the first girl to feel this way about a teacher but I'm glad you have decided not to take it anywhere . That being said "THE HEART WANT WHAT THE HEART WANTS" and there is no easy way to change that but knowing that he has a family and dosn't feel the same way you feel towards him should put this in perspctive. You didn't say what grade your in but eventually you will graduate and move on with your life and he will continue with his so in a sense Time will proably fix your problem. Sorry i couldn't give you a magic answer on how to move on from this situation but remember that in time you will put this love for him in it's proper place and move on to someone that is physically as well emotionally available for you to love.