Need help!!!

[Scotfiddle]

Hi everyone,

I'll start from the beginning: over the last few weeks there is this girl who I've been talking to. She's really nice, funny and cute! Last weekend we went to a movie then out for coffee after. Things went pretty good. But she was texting a lot.. I don't know if she was nervous or what? Then I dropped her of at her home at walked her to the door. Long story short, I said that I like her and she said that she liked me too. Then I asked her to be my girlfriend.. It was stupid of me to ask so soon, it just slipped out! She said that she wants to hang out a but more first and I completely understand.

I texted her on Wednesday while she was at dance. She texted me back after dance, "Hey sorry I can't talk today. I've got dance, an English survey and a ton of homework". I kinda got worried cause a couple weeks before that she told me that if she doesn't want to talk to someone she tells them that she's got homework... I replied and said "alright text me when you can!" Today is Friday and she still hasn't texted me. I really want to hangout with her again this weekend. Should I wait for her to text me or should I go ahead and text her first tonight?

Thanks,
ScotFiddle

[Pierce]

I think she is avoiding you because you might be suffocating her. What might not seem like suffocation to you, might be for her. Nobody likes a clingy or a needy partner, don't ask her out this weekend. The only way you should invite her out is if you text something like "Going to a party (can substitute for movies or whatever you want) with friends wanna come?" That way it sounds like you can go out and have fun by yourself and you don't care too much if she can't join you. Of course your going to need to be doing something with friends this weekend before texting her that though. If you need further help feel free to ask me. Best of luck!

[anyone50]

I agree with the above post I think you scared her off when you told her you wanted her to be your gf too soon. I'm as guilty as her about telling people i'm busy doing homework or other commitments when I'm avoiding someone it just seems the less painful way to say get lost i'm no longer interested

The worst thing you can do at this point is text her this will only drive her farther away. My advise is give her some space and see how it goes over the next few weeks. If she becomes reinterested she will text you and if she does take it slower next time.