ok so...

[crazydude_14]

i was talking to this girl that i have went out with a couple times and we really like each other and today she was asking me stuff like if i wanted to be the father of her child. and well i said yes and then she asked me if i would ever have sex with her and i told her that i am not answering that. and then she asked how long i am (i think you guys know what i mean) and i was like thats for me to know, then she was like and for me to find out and i told her no. but what i want to know if that is ok for her to ask me how big i am down there?

[Raistlin]

Dude... judging by the fact that you are 13, I'm guessing she is too. So you are both too young to be worried about children. As for if it's ok? If you two are dating, I'd say it wouldn't be an outlandish question, but if you're uncomfortable talking about sex even with your girlfriend, that is perfectly ok, besides you shouldn't let yourself be talked into anything until you're ABSOLUTLY ready for it.

[Gumleaf]

i think that unless your a couple, that is a little bit intrusive. however, if you really like eachother and she is keen for sex, then i guese those are the things she wants to know. however, i don't recommend sex at age 13.

[R_master]

why don't you just show it to her instead if you guys want to take your relationship to the next level? asking for your size is kind of childish, same with the whole father of her child thing at your age.

if your not comfortable with any of this stuff yet then just let her know. your both still young and don't need to rush into anything.