beebs
February 22nd, 2013, 05:05 PM
I need some advice, the problem involves a very long story, so thanks in advance if you read this, and if you have any advice to give.
On wednesday I went to a "Movie Night" at by best-friends ex-boyfriends house, lets call him Jack, so its not confusing, we had been talking for a while, but it was the first time we had met. By Movie Night, I mean the plan was to watch all of the Lord of the Rings, and play the drinking game, because we had lots of beer and vodka. (we had an adult with us, so I think it legal?)
Basically it turned out I was the only girl there, there was 6 boys and just me. They were all fine, not pervy or anything. In the end we were all drunk by about 9 and didn't put any films on until about half past 9. No one really watched though.
At about 3 am, everyone went to bed (aka. sleeping everywhere), and me and Jack were laying on the sofa together with another guy, when some stuff happened, we ended up making out and we went up to the spare room and was awake until 6 am watching TV and kissing.
When we woke up, we new we had to talk about what happened, luckily we were going to Brighton anyway, we sat down in a cafe and tried to sort things out, I found out he has a girlfriend, and that he was going to break up with her, but stay single. And that was fine by me.
At the end of the night we had about a half an hour walk to the train station at 10 pm, and he held my hand the whole way, and on the train we kissed again.
When we got back to his, we ended up sleeping in the same bed, the same thing happened as before. When we woke up at about 8 am, it happened again, we were making out, but it went a bit further, I ended up with no bra, i wont say what else happened, but it didn't go as far as sex.
When we actually got up, we didn't talk about it. I think we were scared to. We were on the bus to my train station, and I said goodbye and was about to get off, when he kissed me. I said we would talk about it later, and got off the bus.
I am just so confused about what happened. He told me it meant something to him, that it wasn't just a one time sort of thing, I think thats why it happened twice. I don't know what it is he wants, and i don't think he does either.
Im also really torn about weather I tell my best friend or not, they dated. And I feel like I owe it to her to tell her.
Its such a bad situation.
I was going to talk to my friends about it, for advice. When I realized, of the four people that I trust enough to talk to about it, one is Jack's ex, one knows someone who was at the party, one likes Jack, and one is on holiday.
So I guess thats why I came on here. I know it is very long and complicated, but any advice would be very very useful. Its all I can think about since it happened.
On wednesday I went to a "Movie Night" at by best-friends ex-boyfriends house, lets call him Jack, so its not confusing, we had been talking for a while, but it was the first time we had met. By Movie Night, I mean the plan was to watch all of the Lord of the Rings, and play the drinking game, because we had lots of beer and vodka. (we had an adult with us, so I think it legal?)
Basically it turned out I was the only girl there, there was 6 boys and just me. They were all fine, not pervy or anything. In the end we were all drunk by about 9 and didn't put any films on until about half past 9. No one really watched though.
At about 3 am, everyone went to bed (aka. sleeping everywhere), and me and Jack were laying on the sofa together with another guy, when some stuff happened, we ended up making out and we went up to the spare room and was awake until 6 am watching TV and kissing.
When we woke up, we new we had to talk about what happened, luckily we were going to Brighton anyway, we sat down in a cafe and tried to sort things out, I found out he has a girlfriend, and that he was going to break up with her, but stay single. And that was fine by me.
At the end of the night we had about a half an hour walk to the train station at 10 pm, and he held my hand the whole way, and on the train we kissed again.
When we got back to his, we ended up sleeping in the same bed, the same thing happened as before. When we woke up at about 8 am, it happened again, we were making out, but it went a bit further, I ended up with no bra, i wont say what else happened, but it didn't go as far as sex.
When we actually got up, we didn't talk about it. I think we were scared to. We were on the bus to my train station, and I said goodbye and was about to get off, when he kissed me. I said we would talk about it later, and got off the bus.
I am just so confused about what happened. He told me it meant something to him, that it wasn't just a one time sort of thing, I think thats why it happened twice. I don't know what it is he wants, and i don't think he does either.
Im also really torn about weather I tell my best friend or not, they dated. And I feel like I owe it to her to tell her.
Its such a bad situation.
I was going to talk to my friends about it, for advice. When I realized, of the four people that I trust enough to talk to about it, one is Jack's ex, one knows someone who was at the party, one likes Jack, and one is on holiday.
So I guess thats why I came on here. I know it is very long and complicated, but any advice would be very very useful. Its all I can think about since it happened.