I am really scared and I dont know what to do

[Panda Rose]

I got into a fight with one of my closests freinds bf and he is calling me a slut and telling me to kill myself and he is lying to my freind saying that I was the one who said it all and she beleives him and I am really scared that I am going to lose her and I am more depressed that I have ever been I dont know what to do I need help

[jayyy-lmao]

Just be honest with her. If you are honest, and she is a real friend, she will believe you.

[Panda Rose]

She said she wants nothing to do with it and I havnt told her anything more but he kept going and he threatened to kill me and I dont want to tell my parents cause I dont want it to turn serious but I am really scared of him now and I can't handle it

[anyone50]

If someone makes a threat to kill you I would say it's already a very serious situation. Most schools have a zero tolerance about bullying but this policy dosn't work if you keep it to yourself.

If your unwilling to confide in your parents because you don't want them to go to the adminstration and make a big deal about this find someone you trust like a teacher or guidance counselor at your school and explain whats going on. If you tell them in confidence they ussualy handle it the same way. You didn't say if this happened at school but it dosen't really matter most schools deal with this even if it's off school grounds as long as it involves students from the school. Hope this advise helps.

[xarvon1412]

You're going to be okay, just keep talking to your friend, and assure her that whatever was said, was not you. It sounds like this guy wasn't worth your time in the first place, and if this person doesn't believe you then neither is she. Don't worry though, she'll see your way eventually I'm sure of it. You won't lose her to this. This guy though? Let him go. He's an asshole and not worth the effort that you're putting in to keep him.

[Xenonrecover]

She is love blind give her a chance to calm down and then try talking to her and telling her the truth. Also try to get evidence of him saying this to help back your self up or get a witness

[Xenonrecover]

And please don't listen to the guy and don't do anything he says

[Panda Rose]

I decided to just deactivate my fb account until it blows over cause his mates have started to back him up in it so hopefully this will help thanks to everyone for your help it is much appreciated

[xmojox]

Someone threatening your life is a very big deal. I would say you should turn this one over to your parents. It's why you have them. As for losing the girl as a friend, I wouldn't worry about it. If she drops you as a friend because of this she wasn't much of friend to start with.

[XjojosX]

From the moment that threaten your life is serious thing . My opinion is you should go and talk to your parents or a teacher to help you with it . As for losing the girl as a Friend you shouldn't be because she doesn't worth the stress or your tears because she never was be a real friend to you

p.s If the guy come to threaten you again or try to hit you call me i will come there and kick his ass ;)

[Ballboy]

Cutting your FB was a good move. But you've really got to bump this up higher: ask a counsellor maybe?

[Hunter_Steel]

A guy who threatens to kill a girl is no man whatsoever. If he was a real man, then he wouldn't threaten you and he would let this blow over and try to make things right. Your friend is love blind for the fact that she cannot see that. And also my girlfriend would rather break up with me if I threatened to kill one of her friends over choosing my side.

So in the end, take this up with a higher authority. They will deal with it. Your friend, if you lose her and if she agrees with what he is saying, she is not worth the effort you put into the friendship. If she's a real friend, she'll realize he is wrong and will take your side and tell him to stop his shit. If not, shit's gonna get real and this could get ugly if he starts telling everyone.

Also: Ganging up against you with his friends is the worst thing he can do. And you need to calm down aswell. This will blow over, friends come and go, real friends stick together through thick and thin. But the best thing to do is talk to a teacher or school Councillor. They can sort it for you.

If I were there I'd rather take your side over his side, and I would kick his ass if he started it up again. Thats a proven fact. You don't threaten or play with someone's life, its just not cool.

~Hunter