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mynameisjane
November 7th, 2007, 08:29 PM
my friends are all guys and i'm told that most of them think i'm kinda cute. of course, if thats true, i guess im just not girlfriend material or somethng because i never had a real boyfriend. and i have a huge crush on one of them, but hes always talking abou other girls. i've wanted a boyfriend since like preschool. not that i'm desperate. but i feel so lonely and i just want someone to appreciate me and make me feel attractive and i want to make them feel the same way. i just want someone to kiss me already. is it okay to just ask a friend who i'm attracted to with no strings attatched to just make out with me? i know it wont be the same as if we were in a relationship, and i know it wouldnt be worth anything,but just as an experiment to see how it feels finally, can i just ask one of my friends? also, how would i go about this?

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November 7th, 2007, 09:06 PM
If you want and you feel it won't hurt your relationship go ahead. I'm not sure about how to ask, though.

Trickster
November 7th, 2007, 09:24 PM
you should share that kind of kiss with someone special. But it not really anyones buisness to tell you about this kind of problem. sorry

Hauptmann Kauffman
November 7th, 2007, 09:27 PM
If you really want a kiss, ask for it. They should be nice enough about it

mynameisjane
November 7th, 2007, 09:44 PM
to neji, if i didnt want advice, i wouldnt have asked.

so just flat out go, "do you wanna make out?"

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November 7th, 2007, 11:13 PM
Not quite that direct. Just bring the topic up and ask if they've ever done it, see where it goes.