View Full Version : Do I sound gay or bi? Im 16 year old male
theman90210
February 20th, 2013, 09:11 PM
For a while now, I've been questioning my sexuality. I used to be straight. But this whole school year, I've been realizing that guys have turned me on for a while and I didn't even think of it. My favorite porn used to be lesbian porn, but now I can't even get turned on by that a lot anymore. I still do occasionally, but now the only porn I get turned on by is gay porn. Even reading a gay man's experience with another man turns me on. I still think woman are attractive though and are open to a relationship with one. But sometimes when I see a hot girl, instead of admiring her beauty and such, I look at her cloths for example and think about how much I would love to be wearing her skinny jeans and uggs. I find guys attractive and get turned on thinking about having sex with them. Same for woman, but not as often as men. I had ordered a small dildo online, and it came in today. Tonight I used it and it felt amazing! While I was using it, I thought about the guy I Luke's penis being the one inside me. With all this in mind, does it sound like I'm bisexual or flat out gay? Honest answers please!
Censorious
February 20th, 2013, 09:22 PM
At our age, a lot of what we feel are results of hormones acting up. You very well might be gay, but don't be so quick to label yourself. A lot of people our age experiment and discover new things that they like. I always thought I was straight, but after years of experimenting, I've discovered that I'm bi (although I like guys a little more than girls). It's not a bad thing to be bi/gay. I would suggest maybe experimenting (safely) with both guys and girls, to see what you like and don't like. Experimenting is one of the best things in the world because you're broadening your horizons. Seriously, get out there and enjoy yourself!
teen.jpg
February 20th, 2013, 09:47 PM
You aren't the label. The label is made to fit you. Labels are made so that it's easier to identify yourself. Whether your bi or gay, eventually you'll know what you are.
HumbleMuffin
February 20th, 2013, 09:49 PM
Keep in mind that there are more sexualities than gay/straight/bi. It sounds to me like you have a male preference, but don't base anything on that.
Actually, don't base any of your actions of the sexuality you identify as. Do what you're comfortable with and what you want to do. (And play safe!)
(... I am a little curious about how you managed to order a dildo for yourself.)
Maddies_Not_Okay
February 25th, 2013, 03:41 AM
You might be a gay cross dresser, my gay best friends boyfriend is bisexual and dresses like a girl. Just have an experience with a guy.
Eth_94123
March 7th, 2013, 07:44 PM
Don't label yourself, labels are for clothes! :) you are just an individual that wants to experiment new things!
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