What am I?

[Junior St James]

I'm having truble figuring out my sexuality. I like girls in a romantic way, like holding hands, kissing, but not sexually, they don't turn me on. On the other hand I like boys sexually but not romantically. So, any of you know if there's a name for it or if any of you are like me. Thanks in advance.

[tundravortex]

you might be curious because you like both male and female

[Atonement]

Disclaimer: No one but you can define your sexuality. Remember that always.

Furthermore, don't feel the need to give yourself a label. Don't ask, "What am I?" but rather "Who am I?" Does your sexuality have to define you? 99% of people don't fall strictly into straight or gay. Almost everyone is something in between. A man may be happily married with his wife but be turned on sexually by men. It's perfectly normal. Like I said, no one can tell you who you are. That's a question for yourself of how you choose to identify. You identify with a sexuality. Your identity isn't your sexuality.

[HumbleMuffin]

Some people feel romantic attachment without sexual attachment. I am, sexually, almost exclusively attracted to men.
Romantically though, I like both sexes.

Atonement is right, though, other people can't tell you your sexuality.

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Here's the fun part; you get to CHOOSE your label! You certainly don't have to actually follow all of the "guidelines" of that label, but you can still use it.

(That still doesn't change your actual sexuality. You can say you're bi a million times and still be straight. I'm looking at you-attention whores :P)

[Censorious]

I'm the same exact way, only I'm a little bit sexually attracted to girls