My Big Mistake

[Teddy Medley]

Hi, i'm new to this site and online forums like this so i'm not entirely sure of the 'rules'. I'm here seeking advice.

I'm a very confident, sociable, life of the party character yet I feel I can't be my self as I have no Job, no friends and I practically live alone with my family being all split up and out the house most of the time.

I've recently lost my friends and now i'm starting to fall low often. I'm really not sure how I can make friends when i'm constantly feeling this worthless and so un-confident and when I don't attend either a job or education. Now I meet people often when I head to London for an interview but there's nothing around my local area I can think of to use as an excuse to speak to strangers.

I just feel I really need someone at the moment when I'm getting constant rejection, please if anyone has a similar experience please reply.

ThankYou.

[Sonic Boom]

I can't seem to make friends either, and rejection has become a way of life :( But I hope you get the help you need here.

One thing I've tried is just chatting to people on here to practice, and find out what I'm doing wrong.

[dontfiguremeout]

Try and build up that confidence again for making friends! Once you believe in yourself, then you'll be able to make some good friends. And for making friends, all you need to do is start with small talk!