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nice
February 20th, 2013, 12:22 AM
Ok so here is the situation. There is this one girl in my first hour who's really pretty that i like like she is beautiful. I wanna ask her out maybe but we never talk like ever. Like id be suprised if she even knew my name. Everytime i think about talking to her i get really nervous and bitch out. But then there is this guy i really like too like we talk and stuff but everytime i try about asking him out i bitch out too.

So my problem is what should i do?

Edit: yeah he's bi

anyone50
February 20th, 2013, 03:26 AM
From your post I suspect your bisexual. It also seems that you have a fear of rejection so you figure if I don't ask I woun't be rejected. You don't mention if the guy you talk to is gay or bi so not sure what to advise except try to develop a friendship and just start hanging out more with him and see if he's interested in anything more. As for the pretty girl in your first hour I can understand how awkward it would be to just walk up to someone and ask them out if you have never really meet or talked maybe just casually start saying hi finding out what she into and show an interest in her. You can't win if you don't play and everyone has been rejected at one time or another so your in good company if you are turned down

Atonement
February 20th, 2013, 03:28 AM
Thought it's kind of intuitive, if you don't try you can't succeed.

Is the potential rejection worth more to you than the potential happiness you could get out of the relationship? I doubt it. Go for it.