Is there a remote possibility?

[robertoccm]

Hey everyone, on st. valentine's I gave a poem to a girl who is in 8th grade and bought her a valentine's gram, she got really happy. In the afternoon after realizing that she never mentioned anything about a relationship through facebook I asked her if she could be my valentine and she answered that someone already asked her earlier. Then other eight-grader on friday went up to me and she knew what happened, same happened with a ninth grader today, thay were ''helping me'' to get through it, my crush told them what happened, and one of them told me who asked my crush earlier, and it was a guy who she dated before and broke-up with because of her parents, and now they were going back. My questions are if there is a remote posibility tthat I can get her to date me instead of the other eight-grader she's dating with now? Somebody already told me erarlier to ignore her and that will cause her to want me

[ScottishFilipino]

The "ignoring her" thing never worked for me. It actually made her pissed at me :P

[anyone50]

Anything is possible As I remember 8th grade relationships didn't really last that long and my advise to you would just let her know how you feel about her and Take your chances. I agree that the ignoring her isn't a good idea. One thing you have on your side is her parents didn't like this guy before so the relationship will not likely go any better now if her parents haven't changed their opinion of him.

[robertoccm]

Well, igoring is definetely not working, she doesn't even care, so i'll talk to her as frequently as possible, and the advantage is not mine or his either, her parents don't let her date anyone, this time she's doing it secretly, but i'll try, thanks everyone :)

[AbbaZabba]

Ignoring would be a turn off with me. Early relationships change a lot, so there could definitely be a chance for you in the future. First, she broke it off once and her parents don't like him, so odds are it's going to end again. I would keep contact with her and continue communicating with her. Don't barge in full gun, and act more like a friend to her. If she's interested, she keep talking with you and you'll get your chance. Good Luck Roberto !!!!!