1st time fingering my girlfriend

[speddi620]

ive been seeing a girl for just above a week and i was wondering
is it too early to finger her or not. And how long should i finger her for?

[Orangeman]

You need to decide what is best for both of you.

[anyone50]

wow a week you say guess she didn't want to have sex on your first date. Just kidding but trying to make a point as well. The way you phrase your question it sounds a little cold and mechanical. You don't say anything about what kind of relationship the two of you have and how far it has gone physically in a week. My best advise to you would be to take your cues from her. Most girls will let a guy know if she wants to take things to the next step and in this situation it's definately her choice not yours. The second question of how long you should do this i don't know where to begin. if you have to ask this then i would say your not ready to move on to third base. Sorry my answer sounds so cold but the way your question sounds is that your with this girl to see how far and fast you can go. If i'm wrong maybe resubmit your question with a little more background info into the kind of relationship yoiu have with her and how you think she feels about this.

[irish_dude_16]

just ask her has she ever did it to herself b4 and if she says no or yes jjust ask can i do it for you ? :) haha it worked for me :D

[justinglives]

Totally agree w anyone50.

[digzchickz]

meh i dont think that it is necessarily too early, just make out with her and start undoing her pants, see if she is receptive to it, as long as she dont resist than keep going.

[Evaboo]

Way early!!! I let my bf at 3-4 months

[AriannaKitten]

Too early in my opinion.

[Seth.]

Have you even spent time naked with her and done any petting (stroking each others bodies)? Masturbating someone is something your work up to. You finger a vagina or anus until that person cums or says to stop.

[Lost in the Echo]

This was bumped from February. :locked: