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Synyster Shadows
February 19th, 2013, 07:28 AM
I know that I somewhat recently posted a thread on how to ask my crush out, but she said no. The problem is that I still really like her and she's in one of my specials (non-academics - two per day that changes thru the cycle) everyday, even both on some. And she's on my bus too. Basically, I see her all the time. How do I forget about her? I'm torn apart since part of me wants to remember her, and part of me wants to forget about her. Help?!

Gwen
February 19th, 2013, 07:33 AM
If forgetting is the route you wanna go then...
I usually find someone else, if I'm thinking of someone else she won't even register as being there.
Wait...
Time is a the ultimate cleansing no matter how many times you see someone if you have no actions with them soon they'll fade into the background.

AbbaZabba
February 19th, 2013, 09:14 AM
You need to move on and enjoy your life, someone else will come along. I would continue to speak to her and look at her as a friend. You never know. But for now be happy with yourself, your friends, your family and enjoy the life you're living.

Synyster Shadows
February 19th, 2013, 11:03 AM
All right; thanks guys. I'll see what happens.

robertoccm
February 19th, 2013, 10:49 PM
We're both going through the same, I forget her during tiny little short moments listening to music, something is something

Kujiro
February 19th, 2013, 11:28 PM
Have you considered, she saying no now, does not mean she will say no next time?
Perhaps you are not looking at it in an objective manner.
Not going out, does not mean you cant hang out as friends.

It may be awkward, but it takes a certain level of maturity to look past that awkwardness and to hit things off on a friendship level.

Ive always believed that preserverance is the key to make the magic happen, but always remember you are treading on the fine lines of emotion.
Which is packed with love, jealousy, zeal and hate
Its something thats mismanaged eazily by adults, what more ourselves.
Not that im giving leeway because we are young, but to love someone does not only take courage, but it takes patience and plenty of generousity.

She may be rejecting due to various reasons, i.e she has a crush on her own, studies...
The list goes on.

Now question yourself, how much does this person mean to you?
Are you ready to look at it as a long termed relationship?

If both these questions give positive answers, my suggestion is go for it.
Its not wrong to fall in love, even if its the wrong person; in love theres no wrong person.

I would not guide you how to forget someone, because lets face reality. Its impossible.
Regardlessly this person will exist, even at that smallest corner of your mind.
Take it down like a guy, and do what makes you deserve to be happy.

Stay happy
*smile*

anyone50
February 20th, 2013, 03:01 AM
It's easy to say just move on and get involved and everything will be ok but in reality it rarely works that way. The hardest part in your case is your unable to distance yourself from her and when you see her it opens up the wounds. Wish there was a magic pill but honestly the only thing that will make this better is time. The more time that passes the easier it usually gets.

Synyster Shadows
February 21st, 2013, 08:04 AM
We're both going through the same, I forget her during tiny little short moments listening to music, something is something

I get that, but I meant like to forget I ever had a crush on her cuz she's one of those girls that I can't seem to attract.
I like everyone's answers - thanks. Just clearing that up robertoccm