what do i do??

[girl.23]

hi,
well i have been family friends with this family,
ever since i was born.
and i am best friends with a boy from that family.

just reciently,
my friends aunty comitted suicide.
she jumped in front of a train,
it really took everyone by suprise,
she was also pregnant with twins.

any way,
i knew this lady aswell.
she was like my own aunty,
and i was devistated,
by it has hitt my friend really really really hard.
and he is alwasy so upset.

i dont no what i can do to help.
i feel so helpless and sad,
because i want to help him, and be there for him, but i dont no what to do, or what to say.

does any one have any ideas.
please.
help my bring happiness back into his day!

[Sapphire]

Sometimes you don't have to say anything to someone. Just spend time with him. Watch TV together, maybe play some pool with him, go to the arcade, play video games with him or go for walks together. Try and show him that even though this terrible thing happened there are still people around who care about him. If he wants to talk about her then listen, if he doesn't then don't pressure him to.

[Hyper]

No story but when something like that happened to me and a person I cared about I just hugged her.. And we cried together and thats it..

In other words just be there you don't need to talk about it.. Talk about it if you BOTH wan't to but there are things that talking won't help better.

[youthebestboy]

What i would do is talk to him
does he have a birthday coming up
or even just to throw a surprise party would make him happy
being a male, all we talk about is girls. to know a girl was talking about you, and worried would make his day
i bet

[girl.23]

thank you for your ideas,
but i am affraid things have gotten a whole lot worse.

we used to be like bestfriends with this kid in primary school,
anthony,
it was like us three against the world,
i lost contact with anthony,
but my bestfriend,
didnt,
and unfortunaly anthony just passed away.
i dont no what to do,
i feel sooooo distant, from my friend.

he feels like evryone around him is leaving him,
how do i show him that i am not going anywhere,

he just seeems soo down,
how do i help him.
please i need more ideas.
:(

[thesphinx]

when you find a moment alone with him just tell him that you really care about him and if he ever needs to talk to you. thats all it doesn't have too be anything too complicated just tell him that you care.

[byee]

Hmmm...........aren't you the one who thinks that eventhough you're 10kg underweight you're fat? And you've got a friend who's 'aunty' threw herself in front of a train? And now you want us to believe that yor friend Anthony has also just died? Am I the only one here who smells something funny?

[Maverick]

No, Sam you aren't the only one. Girl.23, it is very obvious to tell when someone is lying. You won't be the first member here to do it. I don't like liars and won't tolerate this.