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Jaller
February 18th, 2013, 10:34 PM
Ok so I've been friends with a girl for 2 years the inter time I've had a crush on her and according to a mutral friend she feels the same way however i don't really trust said friend and so i would like to know if i should tell her how i fell and and get it over with because I'd like to stay friends with her:(
AbbaZabba
February 18th, 2013, 10:47 PM
Yes definitely, hell you'll never know if you don't ask. If you are friends, you already know her. Just ask her to go do something with you. Don't get real mushy, just tell her you enjoy being around her and ask her to do something. Short and simple.
Kujiro
February 19th, 2013, 12:16 AM
I guess, it goes the same for everyone.
There are certain zones, once crossed, things would change.
I honestly feel that its good to tell her how you feel slowly and through actions.
You got to be alittle alert on this one, and determine alittle through the body language, and the way she presents herself through conversations.
It is a magical feeling that cannot be explained through text, but when the time is right you would know it.
You can always ask in a least direct manner, i.e if we have room to bring the friendship forward.
Remember, that declaring your feelings for someone, does not necessary have to bring about an answer immediately, but it more to create awareness.
Its always wise to take matters with a pinch of salt.
Do not be careless, but do not be too careful either, when you see the shot you take it.
Good luck
*Smile*
sampelly5
February 19th, 2013, 12:32 AM
i think u shouldnt just tell her how u feel and officially ask her out. just say you want to hang out more (casually) and then see how u feel. if u guys connect then ask her out and if u dont then u guys can still remain friends
anyone50
February 21st, 2013, 07:28 PM
Just open your mouth and let the words free thats the only sure fire way i know of.
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