Finishing to Fast

[clarksonian]

Both of the times I had sex(a couple years ago) and everytime I masturbate I climax very fast. Like less than a minute usually. Even if I go slow it's still fast. Can I fix it? Also when I'm watching porn I notice the men's loads tend to be much larger than mine...do I just have smaller loads or are theirs just larger than average

[HumbleMuffin]

Teenagers will have smaller amounts of ejaculate than grown men.

As for climax speed.. once you feel yourself getting close, just let go and wait. Could help?

[clarksonian]

I've tried and I usually go to far over or just don't want to stop

[jaggdhil]

well, I think u should start slowly and then gradually get faster. That way, you can last longer and have a better orgasm and ejaculation.

[sdude]

If u get close to cumming, just stop and don't touch yourself, then start again slowly, keep doing that and u will learn to control it more.

[Orangeman]

You should try edging so you don't climax so fast....Don't base your experiences on porn. What is in porn isn't reality.

[deanbrodi]

Zach, don't believe those huge loads on porn. Porn is not reality - it only shows what people WISH was normal.

You look like you're 18, so I reckon you've never learnt to masturbate correctly, or you've usually been doing quickies, & so your body has learnt to respond fast.

You need to retrain your body to not gush so suddenly. You do that by using the squeeze technique during masturbation, & paying attention to every detail of every feeling you have while excitement builds up. Pay attention to the feelings in your balls, pay attention to the feelings up & down your penis, & also to the feelings behind your penis, while your excitement builds. Then stop. When excitement fades a bit, restart.

After a few weeks of paying attention etc, & using the squeeze technique, you should have more satisfying orgasms.

[clarksonian]

Zach, don't believe those huge loads on porn. Porn is not reality - it only shows what people WISH was normal.

You look like you're 18, so I reckon you've never learnt to masturbate correctly, or you've usually been doing quickies, & so your body has learnt to respond fast.

You need to retrain your body to not gush so suddenly. You do that by using the squeeze technique during masturbation, & paying attention to every detail of every feeling you have while excitement builds up. Pay attention to the feelings in your balls, pay attention to the feelings up & down your penis, & also to the feelings behind your penis, while your excitement builds. Then stop. When excitement fades a bit, restart.

After a few weeks of paying attention etc, & using the squeeze technique, you should have more satisfying orgasms.

Thank you and the person in my avatar is nerlen Noel (collage basketball player) im white and 16

[Tommytwotwo]

I get it quick

[JDubs]

For the load size, it can depend on when the last time you wanked was. If you did the day before, it will be smaller, but if you wait a few days, more sperm is made, so you'll have a bigger load.

For how fast it happens, as you get older and more desensitised to it, the longer you'll be able to hold it in.

[HumbleMuffin]

I've tried and I usually go to far over or just don't want to stop
Then it's more a mental exercise than anything else. If you just don't want to stop.. force yourself to?

For the load size, it can depend on when the last time you wanked was. If you did the day before, it will be smaller, but if you wait a few days, more sperm is made, so you'll have a bigger load.

For how fast it happens, as you get older and more desensitised to it, the longer you'll be able to hold it in.

This a good point. Recent wanks will reduce loads, but so will how long you've been wanking. If it's just a couple minutes, it won't be much.
I get a lot when I've been edging for a while, and less if I have a quickie.