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rosswalk
February 18th, 2013, 03:01 PM
i kissed my best m8, it just happened he was close by me and i just thought in my mind he was close enough to kiss and i did!
he kissed me back for a second then we both just carried on like it hadnt happened, we hung out at school like normal today but he never said anything about it and i dont know what to say either.
what does that mean? like does he not care that i did that if he was pissed off hed say something right?
i wish i hadnt done it, i might have lost my best m8 :(

Pierce
February 18th, 2013, 04:41 PM
It doesn't seem like you lost him. If he is still hanging out with you everything seems alright. It also seems that he doesn't want to mention it so I don't think you should. If the time ever comes where you feel like it needs to be addressed, address it. Again it seems like he doesn't want to talk about it so don't. Best of luck!

PerpetualMotionSquad
February 18th, 2013, 05:33 PM
If he hasn't mentioned it then I wouldn't bother. It's obvious he still wants to be friends with you so there's no problem with it.

Kujiro
February 19th, 2013, 12:39 AM
Hi Rosswalk,
Im sure if there be any from of awkwardness, it would actually be the moment you made your move.
Its in fact engaging enough that he reciprocated, but like what everyone else mentioned.
If hes not angsty or awkward about it after which, there should be no cause of worry.

But it comes down to yourself, have you considered if you liked him in a different manner?
If it happens again how would you handle it?

Once you are able to identify yourself, then im sure you would beable to take the coming days in a more objective manner.

Good luck
*smile*

Orangeman
February 19th, 2013, 09:47 PM
You should talk to him about it so you don't have to wonder anymore.

ThatGayishKidFrom98
February 20th, 2013, 02:40 PM
I need an excuse like that to kiss my friend...:wub:

Short Circuit
February 20th, 2013, 03:51 PM
What has happened has happened, you cant change that, however, its seems obvious your friend was taken aback by what has happened, and if I was you, would not bring the subject up again.

I have fallen out with my bff over something similar, (he did something to me, read some of my older posts), and I can assure you, I really miss him as a friend, but cannot come to terms with what happened.

Good luck on your friendship

Censorious
February 20th, 2013, 10:20 PM
He probably is just a little nervous about bringing it up. Maybe he doesn't want anything to get weird either

Catholic Guy
February 24th, 2013, 05:49 AM
No that just sounds like a 'bromance' there's nothing wrong with that at all!

TapDancer
February 24th, 2013, 07:03 AM
Sounds like you guys are close. You both seem maybe a little curious. But if your not comfortable, don't do it. The thing is, nothing bad has happened of it, so, I see no reason why you need to end the friendship between you two. You two must be really close ad comfortable with each other, to just "randomly kiss".

anyone50
February 24th, 2013, 05:10 PM
Whats done is done and the fact you are still hanging out seems to me it hasn't blown the friendship you have. The reason he's not saying anything is proably because he's confused as to what happened. My advise to you is leave it alone unless he wants to bring it up. if your say anything it will just put him on the spot and will be awkward for both of you.

Xenonrecover
February 25th, 2013, 11:07 AM
You will have to talk about what happened and see if he is happy with it but if he didn't mention it then maybe he would like it to develop but only if you talk to him first

xmojox
February 27th, 2013, 10:01 AM
No harm, no foul. If it's not awkward, don't worry about your friendship. I wouldn't bring it up, personally, but if he does, then talk about it. I agree with tapdog, you must have an amazingly close friendship for a random kiss to happen.