View Full Version : is 13/14 too young??
hscott729
February 18th, 2013, 02:54 PM
hey guys
basically i have feelings for a girl 2 years below me at school. I think she's 14 but she might be 13 not sure. anyway, what do you guys think that that is too young for a 15y/o nearly 16 (next month)
thanks for u opinions:D
clarksonian
February 18th, 2013, 03:14 PM
Old enogh to pee old enough for me. Jk but 2 years is fine by my standards.
AbbaZabba
February 18th, 2013, 03:15 PM
In my opinion no, as long as you have a good time together and truly care for her.
pinguinii
February 18th, 2013, 03:16 PM
I think 2 years are perfect. :)
clarksonian
February 18th, 2013, 03:17 PM
And personally my girlfriends 15 while I'm 16 but I'll be 17 before she's 16
amandamanda
February 18th, 2013, 03:42 PM
hey guys
basically i have feelings for a girl 2 years below me at school. I think she's 14 but she might be 13 not sure. anyway, what do you guys think that that is too young for a 15y/o nearly 16 (next month)
thanks for u opinions:D
I think it's totally fine. My first bf was 16 I was 13 :P
Girls mature faster than guys (mentally I mean) so it makes sense.
Jess
February 18th, 2013, 03:52 PM
Nope, I think it's perfectly all right.
Kujiro
February 19th, 2013, 12:27 AM
Well, one is never exactly too young to fall in love.
From the way i see it, as long as the both of you feel right, it does not really matter.
Age is and will always be just a number, its the mentality thats above that.
If you feel that you are ready to conduct a relationship with someone, then you are.
There will of course be a group of people, regardless, friends, family, relatives. Whom would think that you are too young to fall in love.
Its because their perspective of love differ from yours, it applies to each and everyone.
At different points of your life, expectations would change, piorities would change.
Along with that, the ways to approach the relationship would change as well.
Its always about giving and taking, and it sure does help if there is mutual understanding between both people.
But for now, you are only 13/14, love freely, make all the mistakes you can now, would rather try it to regret, than to regret never trying at all.
For starters, we do not need anyone's permission to love someone, so why bother what people think.
Best of luck
Cheers
*smile*
sampelly5
February 19th, 2013, 12:49 AM
if it was 20 years vs 18 years i think no one would care but 15 vs 13 i think a relationship would work but others would object to it i think
anyone50
February 21st, 2013, 07:25 PM
If she's 13 and your almost 16 it's not a major problem. Do you go to the same school? Sometimes a guys frinds will razz him if his gf is in JR High but if you guys like each other go for it my bf is a lot more than a couple yrs older than me
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