Am I Gay?

[billman2121]

I like to wear my sisters clothes and under wear does this mean im gay? and is it okay?

[The Resurrected One]

No, it doesn't make you gay. You have to have a physical attraction and emotional attraction to guys to be gay.

[billman2121]

thanks but is it okay that i wear her clothes and underwear?

[Sapphire]

Moved from Puberty for Boys -> Teen Sexuality

The type of clothes and underwear you like wearing has no influence over your sexuality. Although it may be looked on by others as being strange, there is nothing wrong with it. We are all different. Some guys like wearing girls clothing and some girls like wearing guys clothing. Just if you do this be prepared to be judged by others.

[billman2121]

but could i get like a std from wearing her underwear

[Underground_Network]

I'm pretty sure its impossible to get an STD from wearing her underwear... But anyways, being a "crossdresser" does not make you gay. As Johnny said, you must be emotionally and physically attracted to the same sex in order to be "classified" as gay. Also, I'm not sure wearing your sister's clothes and underwear is such a bright idea, it would be awkward if she found out... How old are you and how old is she? Are you older or younger?

[byee]

i know there's this natural inclination around these parts to accept just about anything anyone says about their sexual stuff, but sometimes it's important to get some other info before doing so. So, here goes. 1) how old are you? 2) Why exactly do you like to wear her clothes, 3) what are you thinking about and feeling while you're doing this? 4) How old is she?, and lastly, 5) What's your relationship with her like?

Wearing girls clothes can mean alot of things, it depends on why you're doing it.

In terms of STD's, there are some that live in vaginal secretions, and depending on how recently she's taken off her underwear you can contract an STD.

[Underground_Network]

^^ I highly doubt he puts them on right after she takes them off, he probably only does it when she's not in the house.. But then again, since he didn't give enough information, we are forced to make assumptions.. So yeah, the information Sam asked for would be nice. :P

[Xxzero412xx]

it doensnt mean ur gay but it could mean ur metrosexual

[Maverick]

it doensnt mean ur gay but it could mean ur metrosexual
I think you have two terms mixed up. Metrosexual is a stereotype of guys who take care of themselves and are concerned on their physical appearance and wears designer clothes, not one that cross dresses.

[Underground_Network]

I believe another term for a crossdresser is a transvestite.

[R_master]

theres nothing wrong with a little cross dressing if thats what your into.

i wouldn't go so far to say that your a transvestite, unless you want to be a girl?

its more of a fetish that has little bearing on ones sexuality
so if you like dudes your gay, if not your straight :P

although i don't think you should wear your sisters clothes without her permission. its a little creepy and im sure she would flip if you she caught you, maybe buy your own girl clothes if you enjoy it so much.

[billman2121]

i think it might be really awkaward if i bought my own girls clothes any suggestion to make it less awkaward?

[billman2121]

[1) how old are you? 2) Why exactly do you like to wear her clothes, 3) what are you thinking about and feeling while you're doing this? 4) How old is she?, and lastly, 5) What's your relationship with her like? ]
i am 14
i feel really horny when i wear her clothes
i think about what it would be like to be a girl
shes 18
and shes gone most of the time because shes at college[/QUOTE]

[R_master]

i don't think theres any way to buy girls clothes without any awkwardness on your own, unless your with a friend who's a girl or something. but if cross-dressing is really important to you then it shouldn't matter to much. not like you will ever see the store clerk/cashier again.

if you get any weird looks you can just tell them "its for my girlfriend"

[billman2121]

thanks i think im gonna try that any store suggestions?

[R_master]

i would say whatever turns you on :P. it should be easy to make a choice after deciding what styles of clothing you like

although you should probably be aware girl clothing usually costs a lot more than guys stuff

[Gumleaf]

I believe another term for a crossdresser is a transvestite.

i thought transvestite is when you believe you are the opposite sex to what you originally were. so that would mean having hormone treatment to assist in making you look like what you want to be, etc. i wouldn't say if you are just into a little crossdressing that you are a transvetite.

[The Resurrected One]

i thought transvestite is when you believe you are the opposite sex to what you originally were. so that would mean having hormone treatment to assist in making you look like what you want to be, etc. i wouldn't say if you are just into a little crossdressing that you are a transvetite.


Well, transsexual is when they get, you know, a sex change.


Transvestite is crossdressing, I believe.

[billman2121]

k ill keep that in mind and im gonna go and get some now

[Gumleaf]

Well, transsexual is when they get, you know, a sex change.


Transvestite is crossdressing, I believe.

fair enough, leran something new everyday. :P

[LateForTheSky]

I like to wear my sisters clothes and under wear does this mean im gay? and is it okay?


No u are simply curious or possibly transvestite (if thats how u spell it) i suggest someone makes a thread about the definition of gay as lots of people keep getting confused about it. I think ill do it :P

[TheDude]

you aren't gay.
but i think it is ok to wear your sister's clothes if she knows that you are wearing them...

[billman2121]

ok but how should i go about telling her that i wear her underwear?

[LateForTheSky]

ok but how should i go about telling her that i wear her underwear?

Ehm well that one im a bit iffy about. i suggest u dont unless u really want to

[billman2121]

ok but every one said she should know so i think i should tell her but im not sure how i should tell her or should i just like let her catch me?

[Activate]

I think you have two terms mixed up. Metrosexual is a stereotype of guys who take care of themselves and are concerned on their physical appearance and wears designer clothes, not one that cross dresses.
Metrosexual is not a stereotype.. it's a lifestyle

[chris__robin]

In terms of STD's, there are some that live in vaginal secretions, and depending on how recently she's taken off her underwear you can contract an STD.

woah! .. umm STD = sexually transmitted disease. lets highlight the sexual part. i dont think this guy is having sex with his sisters underwear so it would be safe to assume that the risk of infection is minimal to none.

billman2121 ... i wouldn't tell her that you do that. i don't think she would be comfortable with the idea.

[billman2121]

ok but i really feel like she should know is there maybe a that i could like have her make me wear them? or just ask her like if i wore them would it be ok with her?

[thesphinx]

I personally wouldn't bring it up at all, just stop wearing her clothes and if you really want to wear that type of clothing buy your own.

[chris__robin]

dude to be honest youre sister would probably freak out if you told her, i mean its not exactly something most people do, trying on their sisters clothes and all.
like thesphinx said, go buy your own if you are concerned about wearing your sisters, but you will have to explain yourself if your parents find girls clothes in your room so might want to think up a story if you dont want them to know.

[sead]

There might be a possibilty you are because you see many gay men wearing womens clothing or very tight jeans so it actually means that you might be gay but you can expirement.Do you get aroused when you watch women get naked or lesbians or anything with women?if you do then your not prescisley gay but if your a teen and you also get aroused with men its ok and if you dont and only by women then your not gay.if you put on your sisters clothing and you like women and dont get aroused by men then your just acting plain stupid and ypu have no idea what in the world your doing.:confused::what:

[beautiful.bby]

No, it doesn't mean you gay. You just like to wear girl clothes, I'm guessing.

[Confused4life]

Nope. Dennis Rodman crossdresses and he's straight