Hey guys...

[Brown Bird]

...what would your personal reaction be if a girl you were interested romantically in said she herself had never masturbated before? Would this be a turn-off or irrelevant?

[Doc. Crane .-.]

Tbh it's kind of a turn off for me

[Brown Bird]

Hey Outcast,

Thanks for replying. Do you mind explaining why this is?

[Doc. Crane .-.]

Well I actually masturbate quite a bit and when the girl I like says she doesn't it makes me seem like well.... A gross creep

[Swa19]

Most girls i have met deny that they do anyhow, so its really not an issue. Are you or whomever looking for a relationship or just a hook-up? Some guys find masturbating a turn on or a signal that maybe the girl is "knowledgeable" able sexual things. I don't really see any guy ever seeing that as an issue or as a turn off to the point where it would even matter. So i think you are fine. But if you are really worried about this, then go for it. Maybe you will pick up a new hobby :P

PS: I personally don't find that an issue where as i think girls that do are a bit more of a turn on.

[Krevenis]

irrelevant

[CharlieHorse]

Depends on how she said it.
I wouldn't really mind either way.

[AbbaZabba]

Sorry guys, but if a girl tells you she doesn't masturbate, I'd call her a liar.

[midnightstar]

To it would be irrelevant and in some cases depending on how open and adventurous she is it could be turn on, something we can do and explore together


Sorry guys, but if a girl tells you she doesn't masturbate, I'd call her a liar.

Too funny cause its true

[AbbaZabba]

To it would be irrelevant and in some cases depending on how open and adventurous she is it could be turn on, something we can do and explore together




Too funny cause its true

LOL, yea it is. Have a good day.

[JustAGuy]

I don't think it's a turn off and if she's that open and trusting to me it seems like a turn on

[Macman11]

irrelevant

[Dave99]

Can't say it would bother me, although I doubt I would ask

[johnsmith1]

It wouldn't bother me

[clarksonian]

My girlfriend personally never had herself and it's not really a turn on or off

[eddward]

,That would turn me on. It would mean we had a lot to try together.

[volleyball172]

id say irrelevant. most girls deny masturbating anyway. it would be a turn on if she says she does masturbate however!

[ferguson96]

my girlfriend doesn't masturbate and it really has no effect
she doesn't care that I masturbate either

[saturnine]

Sorry guys, but if a girl tells you she doesn't masturbate, I'd call her a liar.

god bless because this is seriously correct. i have a few friends though that just don't seem matured enough to take masturbation seriously because they're 13/12, but honestly it's healthy and just about everyone does it or thinks about it. i don't know why girls deny it, perhaps because they're afraid they'll be viewed as slutty? it's not, though.
just know they're probably lying, haha (: girls are more private about it due to social expectations and stuff.

[greenMCRday]

I like her for her personality mostly, but if not, it would still be irrelevant to me. different people do different stuff than other people.

[Orangeman]

Doesn't matter to me

[anyone50]

a turn-off or irrelevant why does it matter if you like her. You never said how this topic came up but just accept her for who she is and not what she does or in her case dosen't do. As for the opinions of others that believe she is a lair if she says she dosn't do it all I can say is that not everyone discover's masturbation at the same age. My cousin assured me she never learned to masturbate until her first year in college and knowing how she is i totally believe her. I think it would be more true to say that eventually everyone at least tries it at some point and most do it on a regular basis.

[Hexclaw]

Well it wouldn't necessarily be a turn off. If she wasn't interesting in doing it ever, that would be a huge turn off for me, but if she asked for help, that would be a huge turn on. It all depends upon how you approach the situation.

[Charl1e]

A little, but if I loved the person it wouldn't matter.

[Arsenalfan123]

Not that important but most girls do but deny it...

[justinglives]

my girlfriend doesn't masturbate and it really has no effect
she doesn't care that I masturbate either

Dated one girl who was the same.
She said she wanted to watch me. I told her only if she would at least try it w me.
I stroked, she "flicked the bean...." We both came. It was hot!
We have sex, but still carry on "shows" for each other........

[ForrestGump]

I really wouldn't care. They don't really have to. If anything it would be a turn on if she did, not a turn off it she doesn't.

[Confused161]

irrelevant. i wouldn't really stress about it

[Altiier]

Depends if she thought I was weird for masturbating myself, I don't think I would like it too much... But I think I would be able to look past it. Hope that helps :D

[Lost in the Echo]

irrelevant. i wouldn't really stress about it

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