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RedFanta
February 18th, 2013, 12:01 AM
Hi not sure if I'm in the right thread for this question but I'm straight and I have a girlfriend we are going out for about 2 years now and I really love her but suddenly there is this GUY in my school, I'm 16 btw, and it's like love at first sight. He and I ride the same bus home and I just can't stop stairing at him:confused: please help me
dontfiguremeout
February 18th, 2013, 12:54 AM
Well do you feel emotionally attached to him? If so, then you are bi. If you just like the looks of him, then your just curious.
ReginaGeorge
February 18th, 2013, 01:01 AM
It's kind of hard to tell because you haven't given a lot of information, but by the sounds of it, it's just a crush.
A crush can be a one off thing, or an indicator of your sexuality, but you need to figure that out yourself, we can't answer it for you.
Give it some time, let yourself feel it a little (but don't act on it), and see what happens, see if any new feelings rise up. Perhapes compare it to when you've had other crushes, determine whether you're sexually attracted to him, determine if you're sexually attracted to your girlfriend, compare your attraction to him to other men if you have ever been attracted to men etc.
Good luck.
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