More than friends???

[confvsion]

Well I have a best friend and I think we might like eachother a bit more than friends should, we arent gay well I amnt we both have girlfriends and I dont like any other boys or stuff and wouldnt want to do stuff with any other boys, like if I was gay he would be the only person id be gay for if you know what I mean? Anyway the past few nights we have staye at each others and I kept waking up and our heads were right next to each others and one time our lips were almost touching i pretended i was still asleep to see whaat would happen but i dont think he was asleep cause he kept moving, so my question is do you think he feels the same way about me do u think he was asleep?

[IAMWILL]

Whether he was asleep or not, I cannot tell you. People move in their sleep as well as when they're awake. You wanna know if he feels the same way about you? Ask him. Just say something along the lines of "I'd definitely say we are best friends" or something like that. Hopefully that will illicit a response from him that may answer your question.

PS: periods and sentence structure helps greatly.

[Catholic Guy]

Just keep staying around his, what do you wear to bed? Does it seem like he could be gay?

[confvsion]

We wear boxers and a t shirt or sometimes just boxers and its hard because sometimes he does and sometimea he doesnt ...

[Stryker125]

Can't say if he was asleep or not, lots of people move in their sleep. Sounds like a classic bromance to me. But if you wanna know how he feels about you, the best thing to do is just ask him. Sounds like you guys are pretty good friends so it shouldn't be weird or anything.

[volleyball172]

just ask him. talking about it is the only way to know for sure.

[confvsion]

I dont want to ask though cause hes unpredictable and what if he just burst out laughing and told everyone?

[confvsion]

Help

[Stryker125]

That's just a chance you're gonna have to take. You could just wait until you guys are alone at one of your houses again and bring it up. You could say it in a joking way, or just mention that you're glad you're friends and see where the conversation goes.

[Mark20]

i had the same kind of situation. have you guys ever experimented? maybe you could jo together and just see where it leads. its complicated theres no real way to tell if he feels that way about you.

[confvsion]

No, we havent. I want to sometimes he makes comment about that but idk if hes joking, but recently he keeps saying 'I love you' ????

[Stuey1]

just say yo' i woke up and you where jo... want to do it one time as he probaly has jo without you knowing so take ya chances

[Second Chance]

I think because you both have girlfriends it is not a good idea to even consider being more than friends with your friend because it would be shady to cheat on your girlfriends. If the both of you end up breaking up with your girlfriends, then I think it would be fair game to ask your friend if he likes you more than a friend. Because you both have girlfriends now it would not be right to do anything with him. There is nothing wrong with having feelings for your friend, and if you two honestly want to be more than friends, then you both have to rethink why you have girlfriends.

[David29]

Maybe a bromance?

[JAT14]

Well you could be hetroflexible (you primarily like girls with a few exceptions

[dufus]

sounds like ur both thinkin the same way...I'd keep hangin and let what happens happen...if he stay's close like that I bet you'll have some fun together.

[justinglives]

No, we havent. I want to sometimes he makes comment about that but idk if hes joking, but recently he keeps saying 'I love you' ????

Then u can "call him on it...." Like jokingly "well....u know if u REALLY loved me...ud help me ojt with .......this........" And make sure he knows u mean a hand or blowjob.......if hez not interested, it leaves u both an out!

[confvsion]

thanks guys, a little update, we dnt have gilfriends anymore, but we still havemt talked about it again, but still when i wake up we are really close and he was spooning me. I dont know if im gay or not because i cant think of any other boys in that way it disgusts me but only him. Also he keeps asking me to come over to his and drink before partys? advice?