I Want To Ask Her Out but ....

[JoeHillsTSD]

..... Im too nervous. I dont know what im afraid of: rejection, the way people will dee me, I dont know. I do this with every girl I like. Last year I became best friends with this girl I liked a lot. Everyday I told myself I would ask her out, but everyday i'd give her a hug and walk away wondering. When I finally mustered up the confidence to ask her, she said she had liked me too but she was moving to another state within the few weeks that were coming.

I even did this with another girl I liked earlier this year. I thought about asking her but was too much of a wimp to do it.

Now I can see myself doing it again. For the past few weeks, I've told myself everyday that I would do it, and I get to this girl witha loss of words only able to say hi or bye. Even my friends make fun of me because of it.

How can I force myself to do it? Obviously, my mindset and sheer will power havent been working. Tuesday, I plan on returning to school and asking her to the movies. How can I ensure that I wont punk out at the last minute. Please dont say just do it, because neither you or I work for Nike, and I sure as hell dont have enough confidence to do it on the dpot (but I have all the confidence in the world when im not near her)

[Dooby the potato god]

Make some sort of penalty for yourself. Like maybe you're not allowed to play games or listen to music.

[anyone50]

have you thought about calling her up and asking her out. That way your not face to face and you can draw on some of that confidence.

[Pierce]

This is tough. Maybe it would be easier to just started talking about a new movie with her and talk about how bad you want to see it. Then proceed to ask if she wants to go see it with you. I know it won't be easy but it might be easier to build up a conversation and ask her instead of just plain out asking. Best of Luck!

[AbbaZabba]

Learn not to fear rejection and the best way to cure it, is to face it. Like almost anything, you have to practice. Accept any rejection and move on to the next one. It's not going to get better or easier unless you face it. It's human nature in many guys to have this issue, so you are not alone. Good luck.

[JoeHillsTSD]

have you thought about calling her up and asking her out. That way your not face to face and you can draw on some of that confidence.
I dont have her #, and she doesnt have any social media accounts.

[JoeHillsTSD]

This is tough. Maybe it would be easier to just started talking about a new movie with her and talk about how bad you want to see it. Then proceed to ask if she wants to go see it with you. I know it won't be easy but it might be easier to build up a conversation and ask her instead of just plain out asking. Best of Luck!

I think this is my best option. I've had plenty of conversations with her, so it shouldnt be that hard. And like you pointed out, it would be way easier than just asking her out randomly. Ill try this tuesday and let you know how it goes. Thanks.