Did I go too far?

[ProudConservative]

So, about last year, my then girlfriend, dumped me. I was stupid and ignorant enough to not ask her in person as to why she ended it. She's lied to me about it time and time again. I've tried, but have never gotten over her. So, before she dumped me, I had gotten her a Build-a-bear for Christmas. I never got to give it to her.
About 4 months ago, she found a new bf, and he's very protective. To make matters worse, we have a mutual friend, so we see each other every day after school pretty much. I've tried to be happy for them, but that didn't last too long. It's been going downhill as of late for me. I broke, and this is where the bear comes in, I took a pic of it before, cut the eyes out, and took all the stuffing out as well, took pics of each stage, and a pic of the "birth certificate" for the bear. I then proceeded to send her those pics via FB. Her bf talked to me while I was with our mutual friend. He told me that I am making her feel so depressed right now, blah blah blah. I just want to know why she dumped me. She has no right to complain about being depressed for 2 days while I've been depressed for a year now. My question, did I go too far?

If you're still reading this, thanks for reading it all.

[Harley Quinn]

I think you need to move on, I think what you did with the bear was a bit obsessive and in some ways shows a violent side. Whether or not you'll ever be violent, that's not my place to say anything. If she's moved on, maybe you just need to let her. There's no point trying to fight for an answer you know you might not get. If you've tried everything you can to find out why she dumped you, and she won't tell you, I think it's time to leave it. Try and find a new love interest and forget she ever existed. You're causing yourself unnecessary pain.

[Apollo.]

In all due respect that sounds a bit crazy! I actually think you got off lightly with her boyfriend if someone did that to my partner I would of done a bit more than talk to him. You should move on like she has and you will probably feel better for it.

[AbbaZabba]

Communication is the key to a relationship, you needed to ask back then. She's with someone else, don't add tension to their relationship. For now a least, it is over and time to move on. Sorry dude, but start enjoying your life again without her. Good luck.

[Stryker125]

Yeah. It's time to move on, as hard as that may be. She's trying to move on, let her. Talk to her boyfriend and tell him that you're sorry for everything, and that you won't be bothering them again. Tell him you just wanted to know why she dumped you, and she can tell you when she's ready. Then move on. Find someone new, go out with your friends, whatever. But it's over with that girl. You're not doing yourself any favors by holding on to it.

[ProudConservative]

I've tried to move on for over a year now, and she's known all along that I still like her. I haven't hidden my emotions with her. My thing is that I deserve to know why it was ended, don't I? There's also another longer story that's probably nothing, but she's friends with the boy who sexually assaulted me.

[CharlieHorse]

The hardest thing to do is to let go. But you can do it because you are strong.
Don't let this hurt you. :)
Try to let them be.
Then get out and meet some new people.
Hang out with friends. :)
Do something you enjoy.