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Terrell613091
February 17th, 2013, 01:08 AM
Okay so im like 13 and im veryy shy and really dont like to show off my body to anyone but...when i go to gym locker room i just like go to the gym without dressing out cause im like scared someone will like see my boner or see i dont have any muscles and make a comment my question is how do you guys do it and should i be scared of these things ...
lucole97
February 17th, 2013, 01:43 AM
I personally liked the locker room but I'm gay so... But don't worry about people seeing you with a boner if you do have one if they say something about it just ask them why they were looking. And if you're worried about your muscle tone do some sit ups and push ups every morning, you would be surprised how much of a difference it can make and how much better you will feel about yourself. And if those things don't help your school might have a second locker room you can use, that's what one of my friends did but for religious reasons.
Catholic Guy
February 17th, 2013, 04:18 AM
Well if you have a boner tuck it down the side of your leg "Out of sight, out of mind" then just change really fast that's what I do!
Leon03
February 17th, 2013, 04:31 AM
should i be scared of these things ...
First of all you shouldn't be scared at all. They are all guys and might have pretty much the same concerns :)
But I understand your feelings from my own experiences not long ago.
Shyness is nothing wrong and no one forces you to undress completely in your locker room. Pick the right place (not exactly in the center). Use your tshirt to cover and turn slightly away when changing in general. Try to act as casual as possible this attracts least attention.
Hope I could help a bit :)
spoke
February 17th, 2013, 09:46 AM
first couple of times changing might be tough for you but it should get easier. and not everyone gets hard changing in the locker room. I have only seen a boy get hard once in 4 years, and that was this year. you may not get hard at all, most boys don't from my experience
RCT109
February 17th, 2013, 09:48 AM
if ur scared and if they have a stall change in there
Sph2015
February 17th, 2013, 11:47 AM
Honestly, no one cares. There is no need to stress out about it. You're pretty young, so I'm sure half the guys in there are just as nervous as you. If anything, you not changing makes you look weirder than anything else.
spartanrob
February 17th, 2013, 11:47 PM
I don't really get why some guys are so shy about the locker room? At my school pretty much everyone strips and showers naked after PE. I've never seen anyone teased or picked on. Guys come in all body types, big dicks, little dicks, lots of pubes, still smooth, and no one really cares. So just dive right in and get naked. If you just go fir it and seem confident and comfortable no one is going to even notice. You are likely to get more notice if you are being shy and trying to hide.
aqua_x
February 17th, 2013, 11:52 PM
who cares ur all guys if there were females then thered be something to worry about and why the fuck u have a boner lol?
dufus
February 18th, 2013, 07:11 PM
yeah....no big deal. everyones doin the same thing in the locker room...most guys don't make a big deal. I get boners sometimes in the showers and no ones given me grief. No worries...
megatime
February 18th, 2013, 07:30 PM
Its no big deal. My brother 19 always went nude after the pool so i started goin nude, Felt weird at first cos i woz startin puberty but ok after a while. At our pool all the guys are nude around the locker room.
clarksonian
February 18th, 2013, 08:34 PM
Okay so im like 13 and im veryy shy and really dont like to show off my body to anyone but...when i go to gym locker room i just like go to the gym without dressing out cause im like scared someone will like see my boner or see i dont have any muscles and make a comment my question is how do you guys do it and should i be scared of these things ...
Coming from a jock it's no biggy if you don't have muscles or anything. Freshman year I was the same way and only showed when needed. This year I shower everyday. Do crazy shit. I peed on one of my bestfriends when before I couldn't piss in a stall if I knew someone was in the bathroom.
Orangeman
February 19th, 2013, 03:05 PM
Don't stress out about it. I am sure everyone else is just is nervous.
Mark20
February 20th, 2013, 11:51 PM
try not to stress about it. y'all are all guys so it shouldn't really be a big deal. and if you're worried about getting muscles then just start working out and building up your body to what you want it to be
Censorious
February 21st, 2013, 12:51 AM
There's nothing to worry about. seriously, locker rooms are never as bad as you think
JoeHillsTSD
February 21st, 2013, 01:47 AM
I used to be like that, it would take me forever to get changed. I would usually wait till the stalls were clear and change in there.
At this point idc anymore. I change in the locker room even when girls are in there (girls are allowed to go to the coach's office in our locker room).
Like last year, I wouldnt even be caught without a tshirt because I am so skinny and I was really insecure. But two reasons why I dont care anymore:
I got into.situations that forced me to change quickly, or run around our school shirtless. Things like this made me unable to give any fucks what people thought of my body.
2. My friends always are joking about my size. They know how to make light of the situation. When I take my shirt off they make jokes and I laugh along with them. At the end of the day, we all know im in that locker room to get stronger. So of course your foundation will be crap, but with some hard work you eventually will look better.
swimBoy
February 21st, 2013, 12:18 PM
I'm really shy as well. I hated to have to undress for PE cuz I was skinny with no build at all. The wose thing for me is when I get a bone in the shower and everyone can see it, I turn beet red.
My Mom told me everyone has the same stuff and that sorta helped.
FergusDunn
February 21st, 2013, 12:42 PM
I guess you go a few times and feel uncomfortable then you get used to it.
you will see all shapes and sizes but then its just a thing you do.
be organised with your kit and clothes - have your locker tidy then its easy to dress quick.
shave pits and pubes its less sweaty and a quicer dry after showers
xXStayClasssyXx
February 21st, 2013, 01:57 PM
Well, I'm in the same boat as you but I worked my way around it. Before the school year even started, being the openly gay male student in the school, the administrators requested to speak with me about my concerns. I brought up how nervous I was about locker rooms, and they offered me a few choices. They told me that either I could take Gym, and just change in the bathrooms by the gym. That or, I could take it as an Eighth grader, and skip it this year.
I opted to take it next year, because everyone's really uncomfortable with me this year. Guys freak out and think that I'm staring at them, even when they have clothes on! I couldn't imagine how much it would suck to be in a locker room with them. Just think, I'd easily get boners daily. That would suck... I guess I'm not much help, but that's just what my school decided to do for me.
VladT91Blues
February 27th, 2013, 04:24 PM
That's great they are willing to help. One less teen of us gays to get bullied. Good luck Josh.
RichieRockz12
February 28th, 2013, 01:26 AM
Just Get Dressed Really Fast So People Wont See It Or Start A Conversation So You Could Get Your Mind Off Of The Boner
gamerdudeW
February 28th, 2013, 01:37 AM
yep, just as they all say...your class is all about the same age, so for the most part, we are all about the same size and shape..some guys more developed than others. but, we all get nervous stripping in front of other guys our age, so its normal, and usually being shy prevents you from getting hard. if you do, just hold it down until u can get your underwear back on and the other guys will be too shy to look at it while ur nekkid. if they do look, then they will be too shy to say anything about what they were looking at. no worries man!
Rukua
February 28th, 2013, 01:56 AM
Its totally normal man, kids will be immature and pick on you if you let them,, once you get older, you'll learn to just deal with it, and the people that might be picking on you might have grown up a little by then. :)
hero98
February 28th, 2013, 09:08 AM
I get completely naked and try to catch guys staring at me haha
justin 13
February 28th, 2013, 10:21 AM
dude, im 13 too..and very shy. I use the stall to change my clothes.
xmojox
March 1st, 2013, 04:45 PM
I know this is easier to say than to do, but don't worry about it. It's really no big deal. It'll get easier and more normal the more you do it. If anyone says anything just ask them why they're lookin in the first place.
teen.jpg
March 1st, 2013, 05:51 PM
You really shouldn't be worried about the "boner" situation. We're all guys, it's natural. Who really cares at the end of the day?
And about you not having muscles? Whatever! I'm sure not everyone in the locker room has muscles ...
Just relax .... and change quickly :D
erikzero99
March 1st, 2013, 06:11 PM
I try to change really fast so nobody can see if i have a boner
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