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autismtwin
February 16th, 2013, 10:17 PM
I guess this could go into cutting or suicide, but I'm posting it here because suicide is the main thing. But I do need to get what just happened off my chest.

So anyway, I tend to cut in the shower so there isn't much of a clean up. I have been cutting since I was ten, but for the past year or so I've been doing it every night. Therefore, I get an urge every night. Sometimes I'd just rather cut so I don't have to fight the urge. Tonight I cut a little deep. Not medical attention deep, but enough to lose quite a bit of blood. I was just about to get out of the shower when I lost balance and blacked out. I don't mean blacked out as in I didn't realize what I was doing, but as in pass out. I'm not sure what is was that made that happen. I had to sit for about ten minutes and even now I am very unsteady on my feet. I'm just shaken up because that gave me an instant panic attack.

There have been instances in the past where I have cut - and done other things without realizing or remembering. About two weeks ago I cut in my sleep.

I have been suicidal since I was a little kid, and I have attempted it before. I have been increasingly suicidal lately, making plans and that sort of thing. My therapist said she was concerned about my increased withdrawal but I can't bring myself to tell her how suicidal I am. It's confusing. I want to kill myself, but I don'. My dad asks how I am about every five minutes and I want to scream 'Oh, just lovely. I'm just planning my death' but instead I just tell him I'm fine. I don't know what got into me tonight but I sat down and typed a four page suicide note that isn't even done yet. I've even walked through cemetaries and looked at plots that could be mine. I'm obsessed with death.

I'm tired of everything. Depression, eating disorders, anxiety, cutting, all of it. I don't know how to explain to people who have never been through this what it's like. I wake up in a panic attack with tears down my face. I can't do it anymore. I'm tired of wondering how many pills it'll take, or seconds it'll take to drown. Or how to make a noose or how to go deep enough to die. Part of me just wants to find out.

But the other part knows that this is wrong and I should seek help. But how? I don't want to tell my therapist because she'll just tell my mom. And if I'm really honest, I'll end up in a hospital and I can't do that to everyone else. I just don't know anymore. Life just doesn't seem worth it. I feel trapped, I don't know what to tell my therapist.

VictoriaGotaSecret
February 16th, 2013, 10:24 PM
This just happened to me a few days ago with what you said at the beginning, the next day you will be fine and its not a result of cutting because I've done worse than the other day and not had this happen.

DON'T KILL YOURSELF, you mean something to this world , don't do it please.

turtle guy
February 16th, 2013, 11:34 PM
i dont know you, and i dont much about you. but what i do know is no matter what, just stay strong even if that means doing anything to get through the day. Considering your dad asks how you are everyday means he obviously cares and loves you, you wouldnt want him holding you in his arms and crying for you to come back now would you... i have never cut and i have took pills, 31 and then 23 another time. for me, sadly i cant die. but realize, there are people out there that DO care and there actually even people who wish they could be you. Stay strong and stay with us...

Dtrain
February 17th, 2013, 02:26 AM
God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers.. Remember that and hang in there. Things will get better.

Mynick
February 17th, 2013, 09:19 AM
Don't kill yourself, you need a break from that routine trust me. You need something to get you of, of your own toughts. Just go the cinema or something with you closest friend. I was in a similiar situation and a birthday party really chear me up, altough i did not socialise, it was enough to break from the routine.

Sorry if i have grammar erros im on the phone.

WalkingOnDisaster
February 17th, 2013, 01:10 PM
Listen to Sir doctor of Tardis. He's right.
getting out of routine can not only boost a bad mood but help you feel better.

xarvon1412
February 17th, 2013, 04:04 PM
You shouldn't kill yourself, it's not worth it. Listen, I know where you are, I know how you're feeling, maybe not exactly, but I do know. I've done the whole passing out thing, and you should be fine a few hours. I was when it happened to me. You can't kill yourself, find things to distract yourself, just get away from that thought in general. I've tried in the past to kill myself as well, and I know how low you have to be in order to get to that point. It sucks. Also, explaining it to people that don't know what it's like is the most difficult thing ever. That's why I like coming onto this website, where people know what I'm going through. I just want you to know that you're not alone, and you can get through this. I believe in you, and I think that you can do this. You're a great person to have come this far, you can't let this beat you down. Don't let life win. Don't let the depression, cutting, or eating disorders win. Please, you are amazing, don't let the world lose you.

autismtwin
February 17th, 2013, 09:40 PM
Don't kill yourself, you need a break from that routine trust me. You need something to get you of, of your own toughts. Just go the cinema or something with you closest friend. I was in a similiar situation and a birthday party really chear me up, altough i did not socialise, it was enough to break from the routine.

Sorry if i have grammar erros im on the phone.

I did volunteer with a friend yesterday and I felt a little better. Because of the fact that I'm not doing public school a lot of my friends have left me. I'm thinking if I can hang out with my friend at least once or twice a month it could help me.

autismtwin
February 17th, 2013, 09:42 PM
You shouldn't kill yourself, it's not worth it. Listen, I know where you are, I know how you're feeling, maybe not exactly, but I do know. I've done the whole passing out thing, and you should be fine a few hours. I was when it happened to me. You can't kill yourself, find things to distract yourself, just get away from that thought in general. I've tried in the past to kill myself as well, and I know how low you have to be in order to get to that point. It sucks. Also, explaining it to people that don't know what it's like is the most difficult thing ever. That's why I like coming onto this website, where people know what I'm going through. I just want you to know that you're not alone, and you can get through this. I believe in you, and I think that you can do this. You're a great person to have come this far, you can't let this beat you down. Don't let life win. Don't let the depression, cutting, or eating disorders win. Please, you are amazing, don't let the world lose you.


Thanks for your kind words :) I have attempted suicide seven times and survived, so there has to be a reason for me on this earth. I just have to find it. Sometimes I just really want to give up. I'm not afraid of death, I'd welcome it.

Mynick
February 18th, 2013, 12:59 PM
Happy to see you're a bit better.Indeed it can, although I'm not a big fan of socializing Xd.