Log in

View Full Version : I feel like the world is telling me to come out.


LivingOnMyRadio
February 15th, 2013, 11:26 PM
:D Haha, but really.

There have been at least 4 different occasions in the last month where I have been indirectly asked about my sexuality. And I feel like it's the world just telling me to come out already. Which I am resisting only because if I tell one person, I feel as though I have to tell everybody. Or everybody will find out.

I just wish what sex you liked wasn't such a big deal. I also don't want all that attention and "i support you" stuff because I am fine and good, you know?

This just a hot mess I had to write about somewhere :yeah:

ReginaGeorge
February 15th, 2013, 11:56 PM
I know how you feel! Before I came out, I had heaps of chances to, but didn't. I also didn't feel like I had to, because being attracted to the same sex is so natural, it's not you wake up and go "WOW, I'M GAY", it's just comes naturally, you don't feel different, once you accept it of course.

If you really want to come out though, just do it. Don't make a big deal, lots of people come out by just saying "let's get something straight, I'm not", and I've heard heaps of funny stories of a girl at Thanks Giving saying "pass the salt, oh yeah I'm a lesbian by the way", another guys told his parents "Mum, Dad, I'm straight.... Straight up gaaaaaaaaay", another persons Mum commented that Ellen DeGenerous was her favourite lesbian and the daughter says "I thought I was your favorite lesbian", and that's how she came out.

It really doesn't have to be a huge deal, it just depends on how you do it. ):)

krazz
February 16th, 2013, 04:18 AM
Feel ya bro. There is no right time, just let it flow.

Twilly F. Sniper
February 16th, 2013, 08:08 AM
If people ask you that much, just do it. That's how I came out. Now everybody knows :P

DepartInSecret
February 16th, 2013, 11:08 AM
Well look only come out when you fell conformable with it. Also I went through the fear of people I told telling everyone and the few friends I have told have kept it to themselves and respected it and my trust.
I to wish that sexuality was not such a big thing but it is something that society is taking a while to accept. Eventually it will be seen as... not a big thing but just a thing. Untill then we have to live through it.
Hope I helped and good luck.

Eth_94123
March 5th, 2013, 04:49 PM
If you feel it is the right time to come out then come out :) but think about the types of people who are around you, will they accept you? But on the other hand sometimes you have to take a 'I don't give a shit kinda attitude' you should be proud of who you are and people either like it or they don't :)