View Full Version : I give up
Malcolm Tucker
November 5th, 2007, 03:12 PM
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ezekialar
November 5th, 2007, 06:34 PM
Hey man. I understand what you are going through...i am going through some problems with depression and confusion myself. But you have to remember what good there is in life. Even if you get picked on in school, what about the good friends that you do have, and what about your family? they all love you and will help you. you just have to allow them to help you. I know its hard to tell people how you feel but if you keep it bottled up it will never improve.
thesphinx
November 5th, 2007, 11:07 PM
Take a deep breath. you need to talk to someone about this. a school counselor? your parents? someone. you don't have to go through this alone, talking to someone can help a lot. clearly you were very hurt in your last relationship, you need to talk about it. its the only way to get over it.
EDIT: Take your full name off of here its dangerous to have it on the internet where everyone can see it!
byee
November 5th, 2007, 11:30 PM
You know, Michael, there are a lot of reasons not to have a nervous breakdown over this, and certainly not to kill yourself. But maybe the best I can think of in your case is: Don't give them the satisfaction. It's been said that living well is the best revenge.
Being fourteen is mercifully temporary, things change at lightening speed, Just hang in there. Soon, they'll move onto something else, they always do. Just hang in there.
In the mean time, find something (and hopefully someone) that will make you feel ok. An activity, a hobby, something, even if it's alone. Music? reading? Something.
With time, people grow up (well, maybe they more accurately just get older), and they'll leave you alone. And this will all just be a bad memory. In the meantime, come up with a plan to involve yourself with other activities.
samfromsydney
November 6th, 2007, 09:31 AM
You need to talk to someone,
A friend, teacher, your parents, a helpline.
Malcolm Tucker
November 6th, 2007, 04:24 PM
Ok, i Talked about it with my best friend. It got better from there. But I still feel really sad. What is it that people don't like a bout me that everyone hates me all of a sudden?
Jonathan1234
November 7th, 2007, 09:22 PM
Truth is, people dont hate you
What happens is that at this age people become aggressive, rude, and very peer pressured
What happened is this, one person who had something bad that happened to them, got angry and needed to take it out, and you were simply in the area, the other people around probably said things out of peer pressure, and they actually feel really bad about what they did
being 14 is a very hard thing, i know because i am there myself
Time makes things better,
thesphinx
November 8th, 2007, 03:54 PM
whether or not people are just taking there anger out on you or if they don't like you for whatever reason. its the problem not your's don't let it get too you. It can be hard too let it not get too you but just remember its there problem.
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