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jayyy-lmao
February 14th, 2013, 01:57 PM
What are your honest thoughts on love?

Mine are very negative. I've had a life so far if being called Ugly and Fat, so I've never been wanted in that way. I've never been the object of someones crush. I have very little hope of finding love. I try to avoid Romance movies+novels cos they just rub it in. I'm never gonna find love.

Lost in the Echo
February 14th, 2013, 02:10 PM
Don't worry, you'll find love one day.:) You're only 13, you have your whole life ahead of you. You'll find the right person, eventually.

Honestly though, I think love/relationships and shit like that, are overrated.

workingatperfect
February 14th, 2013, 02:16 PM
You're only 13, you don't even need to be thinking about love yet, let alone being so negative about it.

Personally, I love love. It's a great feeling to be the light of someone's to life and to have something so secure to look forward to ever day.

Don't stress about it. It comes for people at different times. Some people don't find love until they're in their 30's.

Apollo.
February 14th, 2013, 02:22 PM
Love is amazing when its real I thought I loved people before but really didnt. I have my BF now that I truly love and its amazing when everything else is getting you down the one person can cheer you up instantly, laying with your head feeling their heartbeat and hearing them breathe is amazing and every single part of their body just makes you smile. When it's real nothing compares to it.

The people that call you ugly and fat would be terrible partners anyway, I guarantee the cute kids in your year will have relationships that last weeks/months thats not true love that's them wanting to act mature in front of the other kids and possibly get laid. Also yes attraction is important at first in a relationship but as it progresses there is a lot more important things to it, for example I wouldnt care if my boyfriend ended up really fat I'd still love him! Just wait it out and find someone you like/love and someone that is the same with you. You will know when its real

AbbaZabba
February 14th, 2013, 02:33 PM
You'll be fine, we all have a long way to go.

As for your question, Love is what makes my life so great. When I walk downstairs in the mornings I get a hug and a "I love you" every morning from my parents, my boyfriend, who I have been friends with since I was 6, calls me every morning to tell me he loves me, I love my life, I love music, I love to be with people, I love being happy and what I love most, those same 3 people telling me they love me when I go to bed.