I am depressed after losing my virginity

[Panda Rose]

I lost my virginity to guy I thought loved me then he screwed me over and now I feel really dirty and used and I am always depressed I told my brother about it and he says not to worry but I cant stop I have had major trust issues ever since what do I do?

[ReginaGeorge]

I really think you should talk to someone, someone who can help you out. A school counselor, a counselor through work, a counselor at a free clinic (if there's one in your area). If you haven't told your parents, you really need to tell them. They can help and support you, and if you need, take you to a private counselor. Stay safe.

[Panda Rose]

Ok then thanks :)

[DerBear]

This isn't exactly related to puberty. I think you'll get more relevant help and advice if this was to be moved to the Depression forum.

Puberty for Both :arrow2: Depression

[xarvon1412]

I'm sorry that this happened. I know that right now you're feeling used, but don't worry it does get better. You'll meet somebody that won't use you. Don't be depressed over it, it's not worth the stress. I don't know for sure, but I think you'll feel a lot better if you talk to somebody about it. Well, somebody besides your brother.

[Eclipsical]

Learn from it.

Guy sounds like a dick. Next guy you have just hold out a long time before he gets any. Make sure he's all about you.

[Panda Rose]

Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it :)