Pregnancy

[ginny.the.brave]

Yesterday I found out that I'm 6 weeks pregnant. :eek: the thing is this pregnancy isn't because I was sleeping with a boyfriend or just some guy from school, I'm pregnant because I was sexually assaulted by a guy that I Thought was a friend. I could really use some support right now from people besides my brother, and some advice would be nice

[anyone50]

Yesterday I found out that I'm 6 weeks pregnant. :eek: the thing is this pregnancy isn't because I was sleeping with a boyfriend or just some guy from school, I'm pregnant because I was sexually assaulted by a guy that I Thought was a friend. I could really use some support right now from people besides my brother, and some advice would be nice

The first thing you need to do is go report this sexual assult to the police so this guy can't do the same thing to another girl. I take it the only one you have told is your brother? maybe it's time to let your parents know as well or if you can't face them seek help from a trusted adult like a teacher from your school. The most important thing right now is getting help emotionally as well as pyhsically. Most larger cities have organaziations that will help teens in your situation this may be of some help.

[ginny.the.brave]

The first thing you need to do is go report this sexual assult to the police so this guy can't do the same thing to another girl. I take it the only one you have told is your brother? maybe it's time to let your parents know as well or if you can't face them seek help from a trusted adult like a teacher from your school. The most important thing right now is getting help emotionally as well as pyhsically. Most larger cities have organaziations that will help teens in your situation this may be of some help.

The guy is already in jail, and as both of my parents are dead I can't tell them. I have been talking with my brothers wife today and she is going to help out as much as she can but she has a baby on the way herself and she can only help so much after the baby

[danika13]

See your doctor and he can give you places to seek help.

[Kriss41]

Go to the police and report assault. Go to the hospital and ask for help. And if you ever need someone... I am here for you.
I am very, very sorry that happened to you. No one deserves to have that kind of burden on their shoulders. I can't even begin to imagine how devastating that would be to learn. I am very sorry about everything. If you need, please talk to me. :3

[ginny.the.brave]

i hope none of you are hinting at an abortion, because i will not have an abortion. I have spent the day talking with my sister in law and i'm going to go through with the pregnancy. i just haven't decided weather or not i'm going to put the baby up for adoption or to keep it yet

[AbbaZabba]

I am definitely not the one to give advice on this, but I'd talk to plenty of people to help you through this. Good Luck.

[EricaTaylor]

Very sorry D:
Might be best for adoption, but if you get to attached that you feel like you can't let he/she go then keep he/she.
I saw you also went to the police so that's good.

[ginny.the.brave]

My brother and his wife have been a huge help. My brother was actually the one that took me to the doctor to get checked out, is also the one that spoke to the police for me (since I'm mute) and call in favors the have that ass hat found and dragged to the police station to serve his time in jail and he might have had a few extra wounds when he got to the station

[jhardy]

Wow, I cannot even imagine what you've gone through. It sounds like you've taken the first steps necessary, reporting the crime to the police and seeing a doctor. It's going to be tough going from here on out. But you've clearly got a loving brother and sister-in-law supporting you which is great. You might want to consider seeking counselling to help you talk through the recovery from your assault. And for your pregnancy find a good OB/GYN if you haven't already. And you're welcome to message me if you ever just need someone to talk/vent to and you can't get to your family or a counselor.

[candabear17]

Dude. I can't even tell you how sorry I am. When I was raped at 15 I took 8 pregnancy test because I was so afraid I was pregnant.... I got lucky... I know how it feels to go through a sexual assault but I don't know anything about pregnancy dude to it... I'm here to help in anyway I can and I wish you all the best. You're a strong girl. Especially having made the decision against abortion. That couldn't have been easy for you. There's plenty of people here to support you and I'm sure you brothers will be there through the entire thing. Stay strong.
The best advice I can think to offer is to treat the pregnancy like you would a regular pregnancy. Also, keep in mind that no matter how it came about, you will have a beautiful little baby who will love you unconditionally and vice versa. I'll be think of you and praying for you and your baby.

[tundravortex]

its still early you can try to get an abortion before it gets to late,might be alot of money but its worth it.....feel sorry for you but shit happens

[dontfiguremeout]

Puberty Girls :arrow: Abuse. You'll get more support and help here.
I am extremely sorry for what happened. I know you'll get lots of support here from this site. Get better and make the right choice about what's going to happen next. :)

[jayyy-lmao]

Gee… really sorry bout that.
You need to ask for help.
From a doctor, from a friend, from anybody you trust.
As was said before, abortion and adoption are options.
Hope it all works out for you.

[metallic_pink]

Kudos for not having abortion as an option. It will be very hard and you have to prepare yourself for that. But the thing is, it looks like you got a great support system so you're indeed luckier than others who have the same experience as yours. Go to the police and file a complaint preventing him to have the chutzpah in doing it to others. Then go to your OB and start a healthy pregnancy ahead. Good luck, we're all here for you!

[Wanderer_]

Thanks for being brave and letting your baby live

[ginny.the.brave]

Well I'm at 10 weeks now, and the twins are growing like weeds. So needless to say I'm happy right now

[Jamesison]

I would seek soem help and also A DR.

[Horatio Nelson]

Twins.....o_O wow.

[ginny.the.brave]

18 weeks now and starting to feel a little movement in there and the doctor says that I'm progressing very well

[Wanderer_]

That's great news :)
U were born mute?

Have you seen a councillor or therapist at all? After rape/sexual assault you really should to help work through any issues that could affect you later/already

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

18 weeks now and starting to feel a little movement in there and the doctor says that I'm progressing very well

Congrats. <3 :)

[ginny.the.brave]

thank you

[ginny.the.brave]

That's great news :)
U were born mute?

Have you seen a councillor or therapist at all? After rape/sexual assault you really should to help work through any issues that could affect you later/already

yes i was born mute. I do see a therapist and i have been working my issues out. but i like talking with people near my age, its a little easier to talk with them.

[Deleted 12]

I read this thread and you know what i started to cry, seriously you are an amazing woman the strength you have is to be admired !!!!

[xXl0sth0peXx]

User is banned. :locked: