I Really Like This Guy I Met Online, Advice??

[TaylrJ]

So last night I was on Omegle, it's like chatroullette, and after a few minutes this really cute guy starts talking to me (I am bi, btw). He was 15 like I was and he was really into me. After we talked a little longer I asked him where he lived and it was just ONE state over. Him being in Georgia and me being in Alabama, I really wanted to get to know him more. So I asked him for his skype and he gave it to me. I also sent him a friend request on facebook. Well it's been about a day and I don't get it, he won't accept my facebook request and after finally accepting my skype he doesn't reply even though it says he's online. I really hope he isn't trying to ignore me because he's soo cool and I wanna be friends with him so badly. What should I do and what should I say? Thanks...

[pastel]

Hi there! Sorry you're having a tough time!
You should send him a message on Skype explaining how much you like him or your feelings towards him and/or you'd like to know more about him. People usually talk for a day then leave them. [experienced] If he doesn't reply, maybe move on? There's plenty of amazing people on Omegle!

I wish you the best towards your relationship!

[wattado]

I would be careful with people you meet on omegle. (I have had a bad experience with someone who I thought was nice and after a month changed completely) I would just wait for him to message you. he may not be on skype but is always signed in. If he doesn't reply in a few days just message him again. It may take some time.

[TopThrill]

Well he might not be gay. Also, when you meet people on sites like that, you can't always trust them, and you might have freaked him out. Don't worry, time will tell.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well he might not be gay. Also, when you meet people on sites like that, you can't always trust them, and you might have freaked him out. Don't worry, time will tell.

I agree with this. ^

If he's not gay or bi, you may have freaked him out.
So, just be straightforward, and ask him if you said or did anything, that made him freak out, or get upset or angry at you.
If he continues to ignore you, then just forget about him.
You can't force someone to like you.

[TaylrJ]

Nooo, he's not freaked out. Lol. He's openly gay and we jacked off together on Omegle. Just being honest!!! ...We did! So he shouldn't have a problem with me messaging him simply saying hey. I guess he is just always signed in on skype but hasn't actually read the message yet. I'll be patient and give him a few days.

I would be careful with people you meet on omegle. (I have had a bad experience with someone who I thought was nice and after a month changed completely) I would just wait for him to message you. he may not be on skype but is always signed in. If he doesn't reply in a few days just message him again. It may take some time.

Thanks, you're probably right but what if he is actually ignoring me. I like him a lot and it makes me depressed when I can't get in touch with him. Lol, I know it's pathetic but I kinda want to even cry. He's sooooo cool and really cute and I just wanna way to talk to him, desperately. How could I get in touch with him? It's like impossible.

Please use the Edit or Multi-Quote buttons instead of double-posting. ~TheMatrix

[wattado]

Thanks, you're probably right but what if he is actually ignoring me. I like him a lot and it makes me depressed when I can't get in touch with him. Lol, I know it's pathetic but I kinda want to even cry. He's sooooo cool and really cute and I just wanna way to talk to him, desperately. How could I get in touch with him? It's like impossible.


I don't think it is pathetic. I understand how it is and sometimes it suck's but you may just have to wait. Has he accepted your friend request yet?

[PinkFloyd]

You've got to be carful on sites like Omegle and Chatroulette. I mean when guys aren't jacking off, they're usually just trying to mess with other people. If you are really sure that you want to talk to this guy again; you should wait like 2 days, and send a message that doesn't sound too stalkerish if that makes any sense.

[AbbaZabba]

I wouldn't trust a sole on those sites and certainly not for a relationship. Never been on them, but I have seen their videos on other sites and I'm sure the majority of them don't know they were used. Be very, very careful and I've read long distant relationships usually don't work.

[Gandalf]

So last night I was on Omegle, it's like chatroullette, and after a few minutes this really cute guy starts talking to me (I am bi, btw). He was 15 like I was and he was really into me. After we talked a little longer I asked him where he lived and it was just ONE state over. Him being in Georgia and me being in Alabama, I really wanted to get to know him more. So I asked him for his skype and he gave it to me. I also sent him a friend request on facebook. Well it's been about a day and I don't get it, he won't accept my facebook request and after finally accepting my skype he doesn't reply even though it says he's online. I really hope he isn't trying to ignore me because he's soo cool and I wanna be friends with him so badly. What should I do and what should I say? Thanks...

I must remind you that it's dangerous to give out contact information anywhere on the internet, especially to anyone on an anonymous chat room such as omegle.

Not only could the person be lying, and using a completely random (or fake) profile to lure you in, but you never know how dangerous the person may be.
It's definately puts you in a dangerous position.

[TaylrJ]

I don't think it is pathetic. I understand how it is and sometimes it suck's but you may just have to wait. Has he accepted your friend request yet?

No, not on facebook. He's accepted my contact request on skype tho.

I must remind you that it's dangerous to give out contact information anywhere on the internet, especially to anyone on an anonymous chat room such as omegle.

Not only could the person be lying, and using a completely random (or fake) profile to lure you in, but you never know how dangerous the person may be.
It's definately puts you in a dangerous position.


Please do not double post. -StoppingTime

I SAW him on the webcam, we talked. I've seen videos of him on youtube before. He's real.

[Gandalf]

I SAW him on the webcam, we talked. I've seen videos of him on youtube before. He's real.

Real as he maybe, you have no clue of the validity of the things he says, it's still dangerous but I guess its upto you.