Freelance
February 11th, 2013, 03:57 PM
Hey people.
I'm a 16 year old male living in Europe, after having lived in the USA for most of my life. I am in my sophmore year in a K-12 international school that happens to be extremely small (6 kids in my class total). Anyways, recently i've come to really enjoy chatting with/being in the company of this girl, and i think i might want to actually start a relationship.
Whats the catch? She goes into 9th grade next year, when i go into 11th. Shes 14, and while she is often easily as mentally mature as me, she of course isnt as physically mature.
Is it a necessary that I date her? Probably not. Can i go for anyone else in other classes closer to my own? Probably not. We will have 1 girl in my class next year, and other options are virtually non-existant. I also dont want to spend my teenage years (aka what many consider the best years of my life) studying, playing games, and working without ever having a real enjoyable relationship.
I'm not thinking about sex for at least another year and a half if even, i just want to have a good time with a girl i like, maybe move a base or two if im lucky.
What do you think? Would this be acceptable? What should i do if not(or if? What would i ask her out to do?!?)
Tldr: 16 yr old boy wants to date 14 yr old girl. Interesting life situation, non american small school. Help?
I'm a 16 year old male living in Europe, after having lived in the USA for most of my life. I am in my sophmore year in a K-12 international school that happens to be extremely small (6 kids in my class total). Anyways, recently i've come to really enjoy chatting with/being in the company of this girl, and i think i might want to actually start a relationship.
Whats the catch? She goes into 9th grade next year, when i go into 11th. Shes 14, and while she is often easily as mentally mature as me, she of course isnt as physically mature.
Is it a necessary that I date her? Probably not. Can i go for anyone else in other classes closer to my own? Probably not. We will have 1 girl in my class next year, and other options are virtually non-existant. I also dont want to spend my teenage years (aka what many consider the best years of my life) studying, playing games, and working without ever having a real enjoyable relationship.
I'm not thinking about sex for at least another year and a half if even, i just want to have a good time with a girl i like, maybe move a base or two if im lucky.
What do you think? Would this be acceptable? What should i do if not(or if? What would i ask her out to do?!?)
Tldr: 16 yr old boy wants to date 14 yr old girl. Interesting life situation, non american small school. Help?