gay boyfriend texting girls?

[Apollo.]

Hey guys, not posted here in a while but looking for some advice.

My boyfriend who is perfect in most ways is texting a girl quite a lot, I'm pretty damn sure he is gay but its just worrying me. I really love him and I think he loves me but how do I speak to him about this? He's he hasn't came out yet so I dont think its the typical girl wanting a gay friend thing. I trust him but I'm just worried. Do I say anything? What do I say if I do say something? Do I ask him to stop texting her?

Any help is really appreciated!!

[Harley Quinn]

I don't think you trust him as much as you think you do. Just ask him, don't make things more complicated than they need to be.

[Apollo.]

I don't think you trust him as much as you think you do. Just ask him, don't make things more complicated than they need to be.

I feel I do trust him a lot, I understand what you mean though. I just worry because I'm so attached to him. I really love him and I'd be lost without him so I panic.

[Coolboi]

talking works wonders try it . trust is a key factor in a relationship .

[dontfiguremeout]

I wouldn't be extremely suspicious, and if you do say something to him, kinda say it causally, but don't make it a huge thing. Or if not, don't say anything at all, you should be able to trust him in a relationship, if not, then there's no reason dating him!

[Apollo.]

I do trust him though its morew my own insecurities, I don't think he would ever cheat its just that nagging thought in my mind. I definitely love being with him, he's my world thats why I worry. Anyone got any ideas how I could bring it up without worrying him?

[teen.jpg]

Talk to him about it. You need to trust him.

[PinkFloyd]

Well I have been with the same girl for 2 years now. We are SUPER close. Yet I Text other girls because we're just friends and wouldn't ever do anything with each other. I think you should just ask him to make sure that they're just friends. Maybe he just wants to have a friend that is a girl.

[TopThrill]

I'd talk to him about it, but casually. If he hasn't come out yet, he might be trying to figure out his sexuality. You have to understand that he's just unsure about where he's going. So keep that in mind when you talk to him.

[Leon03]

Do you know what they are texting? I think the content of the messages make the difference. If they are harmless and he still rather spends his time with you than with her I don’t see a reason for your concerns.
Maybe you could admit your insecurity to him or just mention your confusion? Not in a drama kind of way - just saying.
His response will tell you a lot.

[Pierce]

If you love and trust him, I don't think you would be having these issues. If you truly love him and truly trust him you should not worry over menial problems like this. I wouldn't bring it up at all unless he was texting stuff which made it clear he was into this girl. Best of Luck!

[Apollo.]

Thanks for all the replies guys, so to update you. I spoke to him making it sound like a joke. He laughed and told me to read the texts they were totally harmless he was giving her advice about another guy. He says he thought I'd of been concerned because he hadnt told me what it was about, apparently he had told her he would try and not let anyone know. Once again VT saves the day:D

[dontfiguremeout]

It's nice to know your protective, but make sure your not protective all the time. Sometimes it can be a pretty personal thing he is dealing with, and he doesn't want you knowing. But just remember, it's all about the trust system!