Why did it happen?

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I hope this is the right section for this, if not sorry I wasnt sure where to make it.

Anyways the other day I was at a party, everyone was really drunk including myself, when I went outside into the garden I started getting off with a girl, one thing lead to another and we started having sex.
After a few minutes of having sex my penis went soft and I couldnt get aroused enough to get an errection again.
I can still get errections as I have had many today and usually even the thought of having sex with a girl makes me get an errection.

Why did this happen? Am I not attracted to woman even though I thought I was?
Could the fact I had drank a lot of alcahol that night have anything to do with it? Was I just nervous as I was a virgin?
Does this show anything about my sexuality?

thanks

[ThatCanadianGuy]

The Alcohol could have been a big deal. Booze+Sex= bad. You should really be more worried about having sex with a relative stranger! Did you even use protection?

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The Alcohol could have been a big deal. Booze+Sex= bad. You should really be more worried about having sex with a relative stranger! Did you even use protection?

She wasnt a stranger, I know her from school. I didnt use protection no- very stupid I know!

I hope it was just the alcahol, unless I have a problem...

[Maverick]

You didn't use protection!? You realize that there is still a chance of her getting pregnant even though you didn't ejaculate? Has she been sexually active previously? It's possible she may have an STD and you might have caught one.

Unprotected sex is a big deal. You need to tell your parents and talk to her and see about getting emergency contraception (if it was 72 hours ago). Get off the internet and tell your parents now. They will know what to do and can help you. It's better to fess up now before a problem arises.

It could have been the alcohol or probably you were nervous, inexperienced, and had no emotional attachment/love to her so it makes it harder... but that's not the big concern right now. You had unprotected sex and you just brought yourself in a bad position.Tell your parents so this can get sorted out as soon as possible.

[Malcolm Tucker]

You didn't use protection!? You realize that there is still a chance of her getting pregnant even though you didn't ejaculate? Has she been sexually active previously? It's possible she may have an STD and you might have caught one.

Unprotected sex is a big deal. You need to tell your parents and talk to her and see about getting emergency contraception (if it was 72 hours ago). Get off the internet and tell your parents now. They will know what to do and can help you. It's better to fess up now before a problem arises.

It could have been the alcohol or probably you were nervous, inexperienced, and had no emotional attachment/love to her so it makes it harder... but that's not the big concern right now. You had unprotected sex and you just brought yourself in a bad position.Tell your parents so this can get sorted out as soon as possible.


Good advice. I would seriously do that

[TheDude]

Uh, is it true that for some guys their refractory period makes it so that after having an orgasm, for a short while they cannot get an erection again?

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Yes, Thats true

[thesphinx]

you had sex with someone without protection. and your worried because you couldn't keep your erection?? you better tell someone before its too late follow Anthony's advice quick!

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Cheers for the advice guys.

I have already spoken properly with her and we agreed to wait a month, take a pregnancy test and take it from there. I would of bought her the morning after pill but 72 hours is gone.

Apparently she had only just finished her period aswell, does that make her more likely to get pregnant? I didnt ejaculate either, but Im guessing theres still a high risk?

Its my fault entirely I know! I guess I need to start thinking these things through in future. I just hope we have had a lucky esacpe :(