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joeyy
February 9th, 2013, 01:39 PM
Hello Virtual Teen Forum,
For my "first" post on the site I'd like to start of saying that this is not my first time on the site. I found the Virtual Teen Forums during the lowest point in my life in 2009 when I was 13 (now 17), and searching for any possible means for help, and guidance. The people here somewhat helped for a short time, but I began to sink deeper into depression and was placed into three different psychiatric wards for a time period of around 8 months. They say that places like that will help you feel better about yourself and so on, but not me. Maybe it helps some people, but it wasn't for me. After the 8 month stay my parents insurance couldn't cover me anymore and I was forced to leave (thank god). As soon as I was released I started back into school and just rolled onward through the pointless lectures from my parents and teachers and life in general all while hiding away my depressed self. I stayed in school and waited until I turned 17 about half a year ago and then dropped out. I didn't drop out, because I couldn't do it I just did because I couldn't stand the amount of bull they put you through. I could do everything they threw at me, but I refused to sit there and play their dumb games. So I left and immediately took the GED exam, and got that out of the way. Now I'm stuck in a hole that I've been in my whole life, but I haven't realized until recently. I have no emotion. Sure I laugh, but when I do the only reason is to get someone to leave me alone. I could be the richest man in the world, have anything I wanted, but I would still feel like the most pointless thing in the universe. I lock myself in my room and I'm still living with my parents, and they push me to get a job, but there is nothing I want to do, because nothing makes me happy anymore. Happy is a child's word, and that's gone now. Some days I just want to blap myself and be done with it, but everyone has those days. Please don't make a post on this thread acting like you know what to say or to get rep, you will be criticized by me. I only want people with similar experiences to comment. Thanks.

- joe

thatguywhosaysEH
February 11th, 2013, 08:15 PM
I know how you feel, for I feel the same way. I'm a nihilist, I see no point in life.

I view life as a void, and in the beggining we see a light; but as time goes by this so called "light" becomes dimmer and dimmer until poof, it's gone and we are now surrounded by darkness. What meaning does life have? What purpose do we serve? For every smile we cause will soon become a frown, every person we make happy will once again be sad, and every life we save will still be lost. Nothing in this world could make me happy, because everything in this world is worthless, and every person is too. The only reason we live is to live, and that itself means nothing. Everything we are, everything we strive to be, everything we do, and everything we hope to do is a waste of time, because it has no meaning. I could look death in the eyes and yet I would not care, for I know that I as well as every other being is just a piece of a whole world, and yet that world is nothing.

xarvon1412
February 12th, 2013, 05:18 PM
I'm not going to act like I know what to say, because honestly I don't. You want honesty? I feel the same way. I don't care if you believe me, or criticize me, because it doesn't matter. It's how I feel, and I know I feel this way. Back to the point, I get it. It seems like as of late, I don't get any enjoyment out of anything anymore. I feel like everyday is just me walking through yet another day. I always tell people that I'm fine, and that I don't need help, but that's because I've given up. I'm just done. I'm not happy anymore no matter what I do. It could be hanging out with friends, it could be school, it could be watching a movie, hanging with my girlfriend, it doesn't matter. Like you, sure I laugh and smile, but I just can't wait until my life ends. I'm very suicidal right now, with one attempt already, I could be moving onto a second here sometime soon. So yeah, I get what you mean. I have a good family, a girlfriend I don't deserve, a brain better than most, eyes that see, a mouth that works, food to eat, wonderful pets, a comfortable bed, an amazing best friend, but I'm not happy. I wish I was, but I'm not.