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dvd333
February 9th, 2013, 12:21 PM
So im obsessed with my girlfriend's body. I find every little thing attractive about her. 1.) She thinks its weird that i find the most "obscure" things about her hot. 2.) She sometimes finds it gross. What do i do? I cant help it! Im kinky and i cant change that... please help :(
escalier
February 9th, 2013, 01:55 PM
No, you're not weird.
CharlieHorse
February 9th, 2013, 02:02 PM
It's completely normal... well at least for people like you and me. ;)
I'm obsessed with so many little things about girls, and what they do. I have an appeal for basically every type of fetish :p (except wrong stuff like pedophillia).
dvd333
February 9th, 2013, 02:25 PM
I just want her to be more open and umderstanding. Im willing to try anything, but she wont even tell me ehat SHE likes. Idk what to do...
CharlieHorse
February 9th, 2013, 02:43 PM
Play a game for couples like truth or dare and ask her what she likes.
Or Google something like 20 questions to ask your bf/gf. Turn it into a game. Those are fun :)
Fireflame
February 15th, 2013, 09:56 PM
She obviously finds it disrespectful. That is not ok dude because it makes her uncomfortable. Just try to relieve yourself beforehand and then be nice to her.
Women are always wondering what guys think of their bodies. Do not make her feel insecure. It is not terrible, just control yourself there fellow.
Nolf
February 16th, 2013, 01:19 AM
just keep it to yourself and you should be fine if it creeps her out. I think its really great that you can date someone you feel that way about
amandamanda
February 19th, 2013, 01:00 PM
I think it's awesome. What part of it does she find weird?
dvd333
February 19th, 2013, 03:56 PM
I think it's awesome. What part of it does she find weird?
Well i have a foot fetish for one...she says shes okay with it. She finds me loving every little detail weird. Like her freckles, her curves, her skin, her hair, the way her face is shaped, and even her more intimate parts...
xmojox
February 19th, 2013, 04:57 PM
How long have y'all been together?
anyone50
February 19th, 2013, 06:58 PM
Maybe try being a little less vocal about the details of your fondnest for her in such a detailed manner and just enjoy being with her. If your trying to get her to recipocate and tell you what she likes about you in the same detaied way it may not happen and if this is a problem there's not a whole lot you can do to change the way she feels. If you value your relationship you'll find a way to get around this and find some common ground you both can agree on.
IceKing
February 19th, 2013, 07:04 PM
It's not so much weird, but your girlfriend is translating it as "creepy". If anything keep some of the thoughts to yourself. It's fine to tell her that she is beautiful but you can't obsess over her toes and not expect her to question it. You're not weird but some people won't understand.
dvd333
February 21st, 2013, 12:06 AM
How long have y'all been together?
Year and a half
xmojox
February 22nd, 2013, 01:58 AM
Year and a half
That's awhile. I asked because I was wondering if you were a new couple. Maybe just enjoy all her parts without tellin her how beautiful you think they are. I kinda had to start doing that. Now I just tell her that her whole body is perfection. Good luck man.
AriannaKitten
June 30th, 2013, 03:00 AM
Feet fetishes freak me out honestly but the rest seems fair.
Lost in the Echo
July 1st, 2013, 12:19 AM
Feet fetishes freak me out honestly but the rest seems fair.
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