A bad relationship?

[Kriss41]

Hey. I need help.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years,and we are really happy together.
Well... He's happy.
I love him so much. But he is very pessimistic. He gets angry very easily, doesn't like it when I talk to or about other guys (i don't easily attract to guys or girls) and he's asked me twice recently if I've considered cheating on him.
He's usually so sweet.... And recently (girls can relate) I was havine some feminine issues, and he got mad at me for not wanting to talk much, and we fought.
It was never like this before... Is this bad? What's happened to him? I just want my boyfriend back...

[Synyster Shadows]

Guys can be really sensitive without showing it. I think that's what's going on with him. Have you tried talking to him about it? If that fails (he doesn't talk), maybe you should consider finding someone new.

[LouBerry]

I was in a very similar situation about a year ago actually. It just stopped working. I'll always love my Austin. But the boy that he is now isn't my Austin. So, I moved on. It turned out for the best. I hope you can resolve your problems. I'd start by talking to him about it.

[AbbaZabba]

I've been best friends with my boyfriend since I was 6, so we've been together in reality for 9 years, though maybe a year really in love and we have gone though our shares of emotions together. The only advice I know, and I'm only 15, is communication. Conversation and honesty is the key. When you're around someone for a while things change some, and love and communication is the only thing that can help during tough times. It could be a phase or it could be fizzling out. Good Luck.

[ImCoolBeans]

He may be going through some things emotionally that he may not feel comfortable with. Have you tried expressing how you feel about the current situation to him? Honesty and communication are arguably the two most important parts of a relationship and they are both a two way street. If you open up to him and confide in him about your feelings he'll be more inclined to do so with you. Be honest and try to talk it out -- a relationship of two years is definitely worth putting in the effort to fix.

[robertoccm]

letting violence grow leads to more violence

[Kriss41]

Hey bud, thanks for the advice. I'll definitely try to see what's going on. He just claims everythings okay... Perhaps I just gotta fish out what's up...

[TopThrill]

In the end, he'll be worse without you. The reason he doesn't want you talking to or about other guys is because he's afraid of you. So you know he loves you. Next time he asks you about cheating or something like that, look him in the eye and say, "I love you, and I don't ever want to leave you," or something like that. Right now, it seems like he REALLY needs you now more than ever. Hang on!

[Synyster Shadows]

In the end, he'll be worse without you. The reason he doesn't want you talking to or about other guys is because he's afraid of you. So you know he loves you. Next time he asks you about cheating or something like that, look him in the eye and say, "I love you, and I don't ever want to leave you," or something like that. Right now, it seems like he REALLY needs you now more than ever. Hang on!

Totally agree. He needs you. Usually, if I'm upset, no one knows because I hide it/ refuse to tell people so. He needs you to stay.