ScottishFilipino
February 8th, 2013, 12:58 PM
So 14 years ago, my mother gave birth to me. At first my dad was around for a small amount of time but was a little shady. My mom broke up with him because he was cheating on her and he lied (a lot!). The next 10 years went by without much word from him, the one big issue that was accumulating over time was child support. I think at the time, (2010) he owed about $8,000. Which we thought was just a huge number. That same year, we discovered i had a sister. The woman that he was seeing while with my mom, he had a kid with. But shortly after, she broke up with him because he was a liar.
It really hurt me and my mom by because my grandmother had known about her but never told us about her. So we contacted her mom, and that year i flew over and visited them. Now me and my sister are very close! The only sad this is that she lives over 2,000 miles away. Then next year, went over without any problems what so ever. Then we discovered we had ANOTHER sibling. She was 3 years old at the time. So i decided to visit my dad and grandparents in L.A. Of course he played everything nice and cool, but deep inside i knew he was scared at the fact I was there face to face with him. Again, life went on as normal. Then we get a message from my grandma saying he's having triplets. We were all just speechless. I had sent a text to my dad questioning him about lots of stuff and he replied with threats and telling me to never go back to California. I was scared shit less because in less than two weeks i was visiting California again. Luckily, i did not have to see him. Even though he probably wouldn't have done anything. The thought was still there, he still said it. Since 2010 he accumulated over 20,000 dollars for my sister and myself. So we are currently taking actions for that.
Just felt like sharing and getting this off my chest.
It really hurt me and my mom by because my grandmother had known about her but never told us about her. So we contacted her mom, and that year i flew over and visited them. Now me and my sister are very close! The only sad this is that she lives over 2,000 miles away. Then next year, went over without any problems what so ever. Then we discovered we had ANOTHER sibling. She was 3 years old at the time. So i decided to visit my dad and grandparents in L.A. Of course he played everything nice and cool, but deep inside i knew he was scared at the fact I was there face to face with him. Again, life went on as normal. Then we get a message from my grandma saying he's having triplets. We were all just speechless. I had sent a text to my dad questioning him about lots of stuff and he replied with threats and telling me to never go back to California. I was scared shit less because in less than two weeks i was visiting California again. Luckily, i did not have to see him. Even though he probably wouldn't have done anything. The thought was still there, he still said it. Since 2010 he accumulated over 20,000 dollars for my sister and myself. So we are currently taking actions for that.
Just felt like sharing and getting this off my chest.