Deja Vu

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So yes, I did get myself in the exact same situation I was in last month. In case you didn't read that thread, here it is - http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=165974.

So, while my new crush doesn't HATE me, I can tell that it's something he'll need to get used to. I can't really blame him for it. I mean of course the feeling inside is a weird sense of dissapointment, but it's much better then I had anticipated.

Maybe my situation will actually be getting better? I don't know ...

[highfieldsboy]

It seems from your other thread and this one, is that you need to calm down.
Not everyone is going to like your sexuality.. it's life.

It seems you are in the situation again because why? what is so special to tell people how you feel about them?
It's like you want them to be the same as you and hope they are gay/bi too? it's not how it works.

Unless you are 100% sure you need to tell people all the time how you feel, just don't do it, do they really need to know? Your only 13 years old. So much time ahead of you.

I just think you should really watch what you are doing, you'll only get dissapointed as both your threads show.
It's not the end of the world.

[teen.jpg]

It seems from your other thread and this one, is that you need to calm down.
Not everyone is going to like your sexuality.. it's life.

It seems you are in the situation again because why? what is so special to tell people how you feel about them?
It's like you want them to be the same as you and hope they are gay/bi too? it's not how it works.

Unless you are 100% sure you need to tell people all the time how you feel, just don't do it, do they really need to know? Your only 13 years old. So much time ahead of you.

I just think you should really watch what you are doing, you'll only get dissapointed as both your threads show.
It's not the end of the world.

I'm completely aware not everyone is going to agree with my sexuality. And that most people I know won't be gay/bi. But that's far besides the point.

The reason I have to tell them is that it's sooo much harder to keep it to yourself then it is to actually tell them. If I keep it to myself, it's all I'll ever be able to think about. If I tell them about it, it'll be easier to get over them.

The other reason I tell them is because I consider them friends. And from what I know, things like this can end a friendship. BUT, they can also make a friendship much stronger. Sure, it's also alot more difficult, but it's definitely worth it.

Yes, I'm only 13. Sure, that may be young to YOU. But when you're actually living life, sometimes you forget how young you are, and try to take control of your emotions. I may not make the BEST decisions, but I don't make the WORST either.

What my post was about actually was will my situation get any better. It's seems to be alot better then where I was before, in my opinion.

[Eth_94123]

I'm sure you'll figure things out :)