naked

[dvd333]

So i love being naked with my girlfriend. But she doesnt. Ive done everything i could to diminish her insecurities. Its a big turn on for me and its very intimate for me to show my body. She is the only one that has ever seen me naked since i hit puberty. What do i do? What do i tell her? Any opinions or advice is welcome.

[NORTH.KN16HT]

Wait untill shes comfortable with the idea... If you force the topic on her you could push her away. Wait a few weeks and re address it. Never make anything all about you. It's an US relationship.

As far as what you could do... Make her truly feel like every inch of her is beautiful. Don't even mention anything shes insecure about.

And remember dont force...

[Harley Quinn]

So i love being naked with my girlfriend. But she doesnt. Ive done everything i could to diminish her insecurities. Its a big turn on for me and its very intimate for me to show my body. She is the only one that has ever seen me naked since i hit puberty. What do i do? What do i tell her? Any opinions or advice is welcome.

Sometimes you can't completely 'diminish' every insecurity someone has, and the thing is, you shouldn't want to. Instead, try and make her feel beautiful, stop trying to rush the whole naked thing. Sure, that might be what you want to do, but maybe she isn't ready for that and if so you need to respect that. Have you ever asked her what she feels about the idea, and maybe why she doesn't want to? However, like the above poster said, don't force it. Be gentle with the idea, and try and ease her in without freaking her out. Make every moment special.

[dontfiguremeout]

I think you need to respect the girl! Girls have feelings, and they don't want to feel like a guys property. Let her do this when she feels time it's right. So sorry dude, but your just going to have to wait till she's ready or this would be the worse fight just for her to get naked for you.

[spoke]

not everyone is comfortable enough to be nude in a casual setting. respect her feelings and be prepared that she may never change how she feels

[dvd333]

We've done it before... i just wanted to know how to make her more comfortable to do so as often as i do