Me

[The Resurrected One]

At first I believed I was bisexual, now I have thoughts...


Well, as most of you know, there is this girl I really like and all, but now it's all getting better and I am not as obsessed with her as I was previously (but I still do like her). But now, I have been wondering about myself, since today there was this big feeling that I had that I might be falling for a guy or something... :(


I don't think I'm gay, but I know I'm not totally straight, and I just have no idea anymore if I actually am bisexual.


Plus, I'm sure most people here look at porn sometimes, and the only type I really look at is gay. :? (but it's been like that for some time now)


And just yesterday or so I have been having quite some thoughts and all, which makes me lean more to the gay side.


And another weird thing is that now, lately, I have been really interested in gay people for some reason. I mean, I have been really interested and I learned about a lot of celebrities and such who are gay (such as Ian McKellen, the guy who plays Gandalf; the lead singer of Judas Priest; and a comedian called Bruce Vilanch, and many more...), and I am quite interested in that, yeah.

I don't know why this is all going on, and I don't know if I am more gay or straight now than the other.


Well, I'm awfully tired right now and I'll probably back to see this thread tomorrow, so that's all for now.

[byee]

Why do you have to be 'bi', or 'gay' or 'straight'.? Why can't you just be 14?

My experience with guys who knew they were 'always' not straight (bi or gay), say with real conviction that they just knew all along. That's not 'curiosity', or 'puberty', or 'ambivalence'. They don't change their minds based on whatever it is that they j/o to. They seem really convinced that that's who they are, deep down.

Maybe you're just fourteen?

[Sapphire]

The middle ground between being gay and being straight is being bisexual. If you want sexual and emotional attachments to both sexes then that is bisexuality. It does not change depending on what sex the person you are crushing on is.

[The Resurrected One]

The middle ground between being gay and being straight is being bisexual. If you want sexual and emotional attachments to both sexes then that is bisexuality. It does not change depending on what sex the person you are crushing on is.


Yeah, ok, but lately my focus has just been on guys, so that's why I was kinda wondering.

And also, as I mentioned above, I have been pretty interested in gay people lately for some reason.


But ok, thanks for your replies.

[Bobby]

Okay. Your not gay. Not stright. Not bisexual. Not asexual. Your a 14 year-old curious boy with a ton of hormones. It's to early to classify yourself.

[Trickster]

Many teenages like myself go for our own sex because looking at porn and such which is considered "staright" for boys makes us feel guilty or it turns us off. Its because we are tennage boys we are more then 90% scared of girls for more then many reasons. Rejection, Ridicule, embarrasment, unhappiness shall i continue? that what we may subconsiuoly think about when we see a girl or porn with a girl. I feel this way when i tried to look a girl porn it didnt work. It manly a phase but like IAMSAM said why cant you just be fourteen? (By the way AWESOME phrase " why cant you just be 14? ")

[Tatsuya]

well look in your mind...i think that its ok for a bi to turn on to gay for awhile......i mean you are bi rite,so then its ok to be gay more than straight....it is in your hand..you can choose any side.....LOL:rolleyes:.......