Somebody please help....

[vanhalenftw1539]

So there's this guy in my grade that I've always found kind of attractive. It's mainly a curiosity thing- a lot of the girls I know don't really think he's hot. Anyway I sometimes look at him from across the room in one of my classes. A few times he's looked back at me and I look away, no problem. Neither of us thought anything of it. Today he stretched and I looked over at him for some reason and he looked back, but this time him and the guy he was sitting next to started laughing. I don't know if it was at me or not, I could be overreacting and It could have been coincidence. But a little later i vaguely heard him say "hes gay." Again I don't know for sure, I could just be paranoid. I not gay- I have never wanted to date a guy and I want to fall in love with a woman some day. But all these events made me really uncomfortable- should I ask him if he was laughing at me or is that too obvious? Any thoughts at all? Anything helps.

[brandon1995]

Don't let those jerks have power over you. Everybody looks and sometimes probably has fantasies about both sexes. It doesn't mean you're gay.

[Grimfever]

Don`t sweat it too much people will be people and you can`t change there minds. You know what you are and as long as you do that's all that matters.

[NORTH.KN16HT]

Weather you heard right or you are paranoid, they're jerks who have nothing better to do in life than to tear other people down to make themselves feel better and to bring them up. In such case they must be jealous of something from a certain girl liking you, intelligence, or just being a nice person and not being a bully. Either way just remind your self that this is all temporary and when you graduate you can go as far as you want to in life.

[BakeBake]

Try and have a conversation with him about who he thinks the hottest chick in your grade is... or who has the biggest butt... or boobs... Just try and fix the issue...

[FergusDunn]

So there's this guy in my grade that I've always found kind of attractive. It's mainly a curiosity thing- a lot of the girls I know don't really think he's hot. Anyway I sometimes look at him from across the room in one of my classes. A few times he's looked back at me and I look away, no problem. Neither of us thought anything of it. Today he stretched and I looked over at him for some reason and he looked back, but this time him and the guy he was sitting next to started laughing. I don't know if it was at me or not, I could be overreacting and It could have been coincidence. But a little later i vaguely heard him say "hes gay." Again I don't know for sure, I could just be paranoid. I not gay- I have never wanted to date a guy and I want to fall in love with a woman some day. But all these events made me really uncomfortable- should I ask him if he was laughing at me or is that too obvious? Any thoughts at all? Anything helps.


For one how do you know or assume """ no problem. Neither of us thought anything of it""

maybe he does think your gay but whatever dude it willl pass with time so chill.

[dvd333]

Hes messing with you. Just ignore it. As long as you know you're not gay, then who cares?

[AvMan]

Ignore people like that. they are just out to get you. You know how you want to live your life so get on with it your way, don't let him make you feel any different. Anyway if he isn't curious but you are who is going to have more interesting and pleasant experiences?