Asking a girl to my b-day

[turtlelightning]

So im 13 and there is a girl at my church that i really like. My b-day is in a month and i going to see a movie with friends and then go bowling. I want to invite her but if she is the only girl then she might feel awkward. Should i invite her friend that shes always with? I want to make sure she knows that i got her back. That i like her not her friend. What to do?

[Dooby the potato god]

Just invite her, and maybe ask if her friend wants to go too. If she's your friend then there shouldn't be anything awkward about it.

[SammieRose]

I do not think she and her friend will feel comfortable going out with, i guess, 4 or more guys, specially if they only know you. I think you should first befriend her, then if there is time propose it, but she might say, thanks but enjoy ur time with friends. on the other hand if she knows all of you, she might come along.

Still, you have to befriend her before you do anything else. ;)

[turtlelightning]

Thanks.

[AbbaZabba]

I would ask her to a movie before your birthday, or some type of date. I don't think your first move should be a "date" with a bunch of other guys. I would feel uncomfortable if I didn't know you yet. If you are already friends, then it be different.

[AlexanderTheGreat]

Just invite her and say if you want you can bring someone. Be really casual when asking her, you could even do it on FB. Worked for me!!

[TopThrill]

Start with a 1 on 1 date first. Everything always gets more difficult around your friends.